[Charlie52]

Maybe the Government should look at themselves! We are all becoming under coercive control...from them.

 

[Parrot]

Good one Charlie52 .. you are so right.

 

[Tipsy]

And the governments did not use coercive control during the Covid scam.... YES THEY BLOODY DID, OVER AND OVER AGAIN.... Is this why they want to delay bringing in some new law... Remember both State and Federal governments have been totally illegal since 1973 along with every election and any law/ruling ect has also been ilegall. Dont believe me thats fine just ask yourself if you voted in a referendum to remove the Queen of England from our 1900/1901 constitution and replace her with a "Paper" Queen of Australia. NO YOU DID NOT but it was done anyway by Gough Whitlam and Bob Hawke.... So to participate in any Election or abide by any law or regulation is to BREAK THE LAW.

 

[Towing]

I know one Mum who suffered a few instances of physical abuse when the guy was drunk before she forced him to move out. He had never contibuted to cost of property or food.

 

[Vespa Girl]

And the governments did not use coercive control during the Covid scam.... YES THEY BLOODY DID, OVER AND OVER AGAIN.... Is this why they want to delay bringing in some new law... Remember both State and Federal governments have been totally illegal since 1973 along with every election and any law/ruling ect has also been ilegall. Dont believe me thats fine just ask yourself if you voted in a referendum to remove the Queen of England from our 1900/1901 constitution and replace her with a "Paper" Queen of Australia. NO YOU DID NOT but it was done anyway by Gough Whitlam and Bob Hawke.... So to participate in any Election or abide by any law or regulation is to BREAK THE LAW.

Yes you are right. What happened during Covid was also a crime against humanity.

I fail to see how a person being taken for granted by their child would be in a position to report it. Is this just going to be another defunct government department?

 

[Terese]

My daughter was cut off from us, police found where she was living only to be told by her abuser. She was hiding from me as l abused her. He had taken her interstate. Police believed him, told me she said 'didn't want to speak to me.' (They didn't see her). It was 7 years till she could get away. He had beaten her ,smashed her teeth and jaw. Broken her glasses, so she had limited sight. Broken ribs and arms . Never taken to hospital. Took her phone away, wouldn't let her out except to shop with his father ( who would report to him). One shop assistant seeing she had black eyes and bruises. Didn't ask 'are you alright' She asked' Do you need help' she whispered to her to go to nearby toilets and wait. She told his father she needed loo.
He waited outside, police arrived and arrested him and than his son. They put her in women's refuge. She was able to contact us. . It was horrible never knowing if she was dead or alive.
That was 10 years ago now. She has a lovely partner. Lives in WA now, we are Qld. Just had a great visit from them.
Her abuser got 3 years. Big deal.
She has had 4 surgeries on jaw now got top teeth and one more op on bottom and than new teeth in.
Couldn't have children cause of beatings she had to have it removed and her lower intestine removed. 3 bloody years.

 

[GoodEnough]

Maybe the Government should look at themselves! We are all becoming under coercive control...from them.

You need a tin foil hat!

 

[GoodEnough]

And the governments did not use coercive control during the Covid scam.... YES THEY BLOODY DID, OVER AND OVER AGAIN.... Is this why they want to delay bringing in some new law... Remember both State and Federal governments have been totally illegal since 1973 along with every election and any law/ruling ect has also been ilegall. Dont believe me thats fine just ask yourself if you voted in a referendum to remove the Queen of England from our 1900/1901 constitution and replace her with a "Paper" Queen of Australia. NO YOU DID NOT but it was done anyway by Gough Whitlam and Bob Hawke.... So to participate in any Election or abide by any law or regulation is to BREAK THE LAW.

Are you related to Desi Freeman?

 

[GoodEnough]

Yes you are right. What happened during Covid was also a crime against humanity.

I fail to see how a person being taken for granted by their child would be in a position to report it. Is this just going to be another defunct government department?

Are you sure you have the right sized tin foil hat?

 

[mylittletibbies]

Coercive control takes many forms and builds up over time so that sometimes you don’t realise it's happening.

My husband had a problem with jealousy. We hadn't been married long when he was upset because I spoke to the young guys next door. They actually waved and I said "hi guys". They were in their late teens, early twenties. I was 47 at the time. I was accused of "fancying the young ones".
If I was "late home" he would be out looking for me. Even from a hospital appointment, where you have no control over what time you get seen, no matter what time your appointment was.
If I was going somewhere I would be told what time to be home.
Looking back I realise that I enabled this behaviour, I guess. for the sake of peace and quiet.
I was visiting my son and family one day
when I mentioned I'd better get going or I'd be late. My son said "For heaven's sake Mum, late for f***ing what??
So I stayed and got home "very late".
Before my husband could start I told him in no uncertain terms that from now on I would be living my life under my rules and he could cop it ir move out. His choice. And that's what I did,
Of course he sulked but gave up on that also, after a while, when I just took no notice.
This happened only about 12 months before he passed away. I should have done it years before.

 

[Nichola]

Coercive control takes many forms and builds up over time so that sometimes you don’t realise it's happening.

My husband had a problem with jealousy. We hadn't been married long when he was upset because I spoke to the young guys next door. They actually waved and I said "hi guys". They were in their late teens, early twenties. I was 47 at the time. I was accused of "fancying the young ones".
If I was "late home" he would be out looking for me. Even from a hospital appointment, where you have no control over what time you get seen, no matter what time your appointment was.
If I was going somewhere I would be told what time to be home.
Looking back I realise that I enabled this behaviour, I guess. for the sake of peace and quiet.
I was visiting my son and family one day
when I mentioned I'd better get going or I'd be late. My son said "For heaven's sake Mum, late for f***ing what??
So I stayed and got home "very late".
Before my husband could start I told him in no uncertain terms that from now on I would be living my life under my rules and he could cop it ir move out. His choice. And that's what I did,
Of course he sulked but gave up on that also, after a while, when I just took no notice.
This happened only about 12 months before he passed away. I should have done it years before.

Good for you. I know exactly what that jealousy is like. Even my best friend (female) that I had known since schooldays, was considered a threat! And it would have been very easy just to give in to this oppression. I didn't. I put my foot down. Even so, it was necessary to be vigilant, always.

 

[Wayneo]

My daughter was cut off from us, police found where she was living only to be told by her abuser. She was hiding from me as l abused her. He had taken her interstate. Police believed him, told me she said 'didn't want to speak to me.' (They didn't see her). It was 7 years till she could get away. He had beaten her ,smashed her teeth and jaw. Broken her glasses, so she had limited sight. Broken ribs and arms . Never taken to hospital. Took her phone away, wouldn't let her out except to shop with his father ( who would report to him). One shop assistant seeing she had black eyes and bruises. Didn't ask 'are you alright' She asked' Do you need help' she whispered to her to go to nearby toilets and wait. She told his father she needed loo.
He waited outside, police arrived and arrested him and than his son. They put her in women's refuge. She was able to contact us. . It was horrible never knowing if she was dead or alive.
That was 10 years ago now. She has a lovely partner. Lives in WA now, we are Qld. Just had a great visit from them.
Her abuser got 3 years. Big deal.
She has had 4 surgeries on jaw now got top teeth and one more op on bottom and than new teeth in.
Couldn't have children cause of beatings she had to have it removed and her lower intestine removed. 3 bloody years.

Boy that’s a shocking thing to happen to your daughter glad to hear she’s now ok the mental scars probably never go away take care.

 

[mylittletibbies]

Boy that’s a shocking thing to happen to your daughter glad to hear she’s now ok the mental scars probably never go away take care.

OMG, What a terrible thing to happen to your daughter. Also what a terrible ordeal for you.
Thank God for that shop assistant's quick thinking . One would like to think that the police would have enough brains to ask to speak to your daughter personally.
Complete dereliction of duty of care. How much actual training do police get in dealing with these situations. One wonders.

 

[Making Austr.sad again]

Maybe the Government should look at themselves! We are all becoming under coercive control...from them.

I just thought about it too.

 

[Veggiepatch]

I didn't see a MEN'S Crisis Line on the list of available services.

I wonder why.

 

[Phantom55]

Good one Charlie52 .. you are so right.

wait til you get a pension..then you will see coercive control..centrelink staff confuse pension with welfare and expect us to live in the poverty line, not withstanding we have PAID into to it up the late .eighties when they absorbed it (social security contributions)into the tax deductions from our wages prior to then the deduction was listed as a seperate deduction on our payslips.Although Centrelink regards as welfare recipients they cant tell the difference between pension and welfare, one was paid into the other is charity. People who worked after the war had tax taken out of their wages AND social security (for the pension) taken out of the ir wages (later silently absorbed into the tax).....not removed , absorbed..whats ehe difference between pension and welfare???

 

[Phantom55]

I didn't see a MEN'S Crisis Line on the list of available services.

I wonder why.

maybe we should look at mens liberation

 

[Luckyus]

If the act has been passed, then it should take immediate effect. Not in another possible nine months bloody time

 

[Veggiepatch]

If the act has been passed, then it should take immediate effect. Not in another possible nine months bloody time

Nine months?

The average gestational period of the human female.

Coincidence?