Australians are pushing back on tipping—where do you stand?

Tipping can be a tricky topic—especially when it starts creeping into places you wouldn’t expect.

A growing trend in how Australians pay at hospitality venues is sparking debate and discomfort among diners.

New research has revealed some surprising generational divides and strong opinions about whether this practice has any place in Aussie culture.


Tipping has always been a polarising subject in Australia, but the growing presence of digital payment systems has reignited the debate—especially among older generations.

Gone are the days when you could discreetly slip a note or some coins into a tips jar or leave something extra on the table.

With cash slowly disappearing and tap-and-go options becoming the norm, diners are increasingly faced with a card machine prompt asking whether they want to tip 5, 10, 15 or even 20 per cent—sometimes before they've even taken a bite or sip.


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Digital tipping prompts spark fierce national debate. Image source: Pexels/crazy motions


In some venues, the tipping prompt appeared the moment patrons ordered through a QR code, before any service had been provided.

Finance expert Sean Callery believed this shift had left many customers frustrated.

‘When you've not yet had the opportunity to gauge whether the service, the quality of the food, and all the things you would typically associate with for whether you would tip or not, it's slightly presumptuous that you would do so, so early in your experience at a hospitality venue,’ he said.

Callery also warned that pushing too hard for tips could have long-term consequences for hospitality venues: ‘It's just worth remembering that it is an optional thing, and if you feel like there's not a justification for adding a tip, you just have to stick to your guns.’


New findings painted a clearer picture of how Australians really felt. The research revealed that 43 per cent of respondents refused to tip outright, insisting it simply wasn’t part of Australian culture. Another 18 per cent admitted they felt uncomfortable when prompted to tip and sometimes gave in to the pressure.

Meanwhile, 29 per cent said tipping depended on the occasion, 7 per cent enjoyed tipping to reward good service, and just 4 per cent believed it was essential because staff deserved the extra pay.

Interestingly, Millennials—despite their lower average monthly spending—were the most generous tippers, with 15 per cent saying they always left something extra. Baby Boomers, on the other hand, were the most resistant, with 50 per cent saying they never tipped at all.

Callery suggested this generational gap might be linked to experience: younger Aussies were more likely to have worked in hospitality and remembered how much a tip could mean.

The growing expectation to tip didn’t sit well with many Australians, especially as tipping is often seen as an American practice. And unlike the United States, where hospitality wages could be as low as $2.13 an hour, Australian staff already earned a national minimum wage of $24.10 per hour—set to increase to $24.90 on 1 July.


One particularly vocal diner sparked a heated exchange on social media after they were encouraged to tip during a birthday dinner. They refused—and didn’t hold back online.

‘Australia has fair wages—tipping isn’t part of our culture and it shouldn’t become one,’ they wrote.

‘If staff try to corner you into it, don’t just say no—waste their time, turn it back on them, make them feel as awkward as they tried to make you. If enough people push back like this, they’ll stop doing it.’

Others rallied behind the sentiment, slamming what they saw as manipulative tactics.

‘The minute you start feeling pressured or guilty for not tipping is the moment the system is working—I hold absolutely no shame hitting that "None" button every time, and moving on with my day as if nothing was ever different,’ one person said.

Another added: ‘I’ve fully opted out of tipping. I used to tip for great service, but once places started asking for tips before doing anything, I was done. Good service isn’t a bonus, it should be the baseline. Price it in and stop the guilt trip.’


With tipping prompts becoming a standard part of digital payment experiences, Callery believed hospitality venues needed to tread carefully.

‘The genie’s out of the bottle for how we pay at restaurants, but it just comes down to whether venues take the hint and provide a slightly more subtle way of generating tips for their staff,’ he said.

His message was clear—if businesses wanted customers to keep coming back, they had to rethink how they handled tipping before it left a bad taste at the end of every meal.


Plenty of Aussies are speaking out about where—and when—they’re being asked to tip, and not everyone’s staying quiet.

To see how one restaurant’s policy lit a fire under the debate, watch the clip and share your take.


Source: Youtube/news.com.au​


Key Takeaways
  • Many Aussies refuse to tip, saying it’s not part of local culture.
  • Digital prompts for tipping—especially before service—are making diners uncomfortable.
  • Younger people are more open to tipping, while older Australians strongly resist it.
  • Experts warn that aggressive tipping prompts could drive customers away.

With tipping prompts popping up more often—even before the food arrives—do you think this shift is changing the way Australians dine out? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.

In a previous story, we looked at how one Aussie radio host deals with the growing pressure to tip—a feeling many diners are starting to share.

As tipping prompts become more common, his take might feel familiar or offer a fresh perspective on how to respond.

If you’ve ever felt awkward at the checkout, it’s worth a look.

Read more: Aussies feel pressured to tip—radio host reveals how he handles it
 

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I believe that if you feel that the person who has provided the service, whether it be waiter or waitress when out dinning, a visit to the hair dressers, car repair or house maintenance repair, have conducted the best service possible, then I would always leave a 5 or 10 dollar tip. I have also noticed when leaving a tip, the service provider would remember me or members of my family, and would always continue to provide the best service possible, which is appreciated so much. Even though, people who are in the hospitality business or work in other trades, receive a weekly income, your action by leaving a tip, shows you appreciate that extra effort they have put in when providing the service for you and members of your family or friends. Leaving a tip is also another way of saying thankyou so much, I am very happy with the polite attitude, the work that was conducted with professionalism and precision, and the overall general delivery of service that was provided. 🙏🦋
 
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When overseas,I’ve always tipped for services provided because I’ve always been aware that these workers receive the barest minimum wage. My tip often means the difference between eating or not for these service providers. Personally!I think it’s a horrible practice and employers should bring wages up to a decent living wage. Here in Australia I’ve always tipped for exceptional service but not every single time. I just don’t agree with it and,often,my meal and drinks are tightly budgeted for ME and not others wage. I will always thank and praise great service but that’s just common courtesy.
 
Sometimes I tip but very rarely in Australia, although I have tipped a waiter when ordering a meal on two occasions when the restaurant was packed with people. Service was excellent.
Had taken family to the ‘Drumming Snipe’ for dinner near Guildford in England and after a ‘mouth-watering’ meal received the ‘eye-watering’ bill… no problem. But as I was paying, the waiter was using an iPad up came a section for the tip as an add-on before paying, starting at 10% to 100%. I politely (but not shyly) told the waiter that I was Australian and ‘Australians don’t tip’. Well at the top of his voice for other diners to hear ‘He’s Australian and Australians don’t tip’… no embarrassment on my part and just paid the near £300 bill for the three of us.
 
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Sometimes I tip but very rarely in Australia, although I have tipped a waiter when ordering a meal on two occasions when the restaurant was packed with people. Service was excellent.
Had taken family to the ‘Drumming Snipe’ for dinner near Guildford in England and after a ‘mouth-watering’ meal received the ‘eye-watering’ bill… no problem. But as I was paying the waiter was using an iPad up came a section for the tip as an add-on before paying, starting at 10% to 100%. I politely (but not shyly) told the waiter that I was Australian and ‘Australians don’t tip’. Well at the top of his voice for other diners to hear ‘He’s Australian and Australians don’t tip’… no embarrassment on my part and just paid the near £300 bill for the three of us.
100% on top of a 300 pound bill???? Yikes! They don’t expect much!
 
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Yeah there were little tick the boxes next to each percentage that he used a stylus to add on.
In Fiesole near Florence the tips (gratuities) were already calculated into the total including add ons for the plastic table cloth + tiny vase with plastic flower… what I’d calculated to be €32 for a pizza and two drinks at an outside table soon became €54… thought there was a mistake but there it was in the fine print on the bill.
 
Tipping's OK, but not before you have even sat down. If this was done to me I would walk out, go somewhere else.
I’ve tipped on at least 3 occasions before ordering a meal to ensure excellent service particularly if the place is packed.
On one occasion at the Intercontinental in Sydney when all meals and and drinks had been included in the price ($1500 a plate) the moment I sat down I called the drinks waiter over and tipped him $50 to ensure our beer glasses were never empty. Made for a great night.
 
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Tipping in hotel bars has been around for over 50 years... Victoria in the early 70's we would tip the barmaid/barman and get looked after... in the NT it was the same...the tips were divided up between the workers at end of shift which made it fair.
 
I will never give a tip. Wages are good enough here in Australia, & the price you pay for a meal at a restaurant is ridiculous. They businesses make enough money from the customers from food & drinks.

We VERY rarely eat out or have take-away as it is. IF we do go out for a meal it’s usually at a pub.

Tipping is NOT an Australian thing. We already have too many influencers from overseas as it is: biscuits are now cookies, chips are now fries, pantry items are now staples…..

Makes me so angry😡😡😡
 
How do you know the tip you leave goes to the staff member? That is the question I have.
It doesn't it goes into a pot to be divided by all staff.

Also note that in Australia all employees are required to be paid award wages or above. Any company not paying correctly can be fined heavily. Overseas peop;e are paid a pittance so there you should tip
 
It doesn't it goes into a pot to be divided by all staff.

Also note that in Australia all employees are required to be paid award wages or above. Any company not paying correctly can be fined heavily. Overseas peop;e are paid a pittance so there you should tip
Dear member Southmelbswans, do the CEOs in the hospitality industry, in other countries, not think that their waiters and waitresses are worthy of a higher income. This is not fair. The waiters and waitresses do their work efficiently, making so much profit for the restaurant owners, and in return, they have to depend on tips left by customers, in order to bring home a decent earning sum. So the majority of customers order a dish that does not cost much, and have to pay ten percent as a tip, well, the waiter or waitress can not expext much at all that would be added to their small wage. That is why so many young people in our country, are happy to work in the hospitality industry, as they are provided with a fair income, for the hard and professional service that they deliver to customers that come to dine. Good Karma to you always, God bless, 🙏🦋
 
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It doesn't it goes into a pot to be divided by all staff.

Also note that in Australia all employees are required to be paid award wages or above. Any company not paying correctly can be fined heavily. Overseas peop;e are paid a pittance so there you should tip
If you are paying by card, how do you know how the manager organises the tip?
 
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If you are paying by card, how do you know how the manager organises the tip?
Dear member The winner is, it appears that most probably the amount that the manager organises as a tip would show on your receipt, Good Karma to you always, God bless, 🙏🦋
 

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