Aussie woman warns about 'buy-now-pay-later' schemes: 'It was a shocking wake-up call'

*Disclaimer: The names in this article were changed for privacy purposes.

In today's digital age, the allure of instant gratification is stronger than ever, especially when it comes to shopping.

With the click of a button, we can have the latest fashion, gadgets, and even vacations, often without feeling the immediate pinch to our wallets.

This modern convenience, however, can come at a steep price, and a woman from NSW learned the hard way.


Jacqueline*'s journey into the quicksand of debt began innocuously enough with the use of Afterpay, a popular buy-now-pay-later (BNPL) service.

It allowed the 34-year-old Jacqueline to indulge in her love for fashion as she acquired designer handbags and items through the service.

'The appeal of BNPL services was irresistible, and it allowed me to buy items I wanted immediately without the initial financial burden,' she shared.


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Jacqueline felt a false sense of financial freedom as she continued using credit for major purchases. Image Credit: Pexels/Andrea Piacquadio


What started as a manageable convenience soon spiralled into an uncontrollable habit.

Before using Afterpay, Jacqueline saved diligently for her desires, enjoyed the satisfaction of layby services, and always had enough money set aside for daily needs.

The introduction of Afterpay marked a drastic shift in her spending habits, and debt silently began to pile up.

'This gave me a sense of freedom and instant gratification but also led to impulsive buying, which eventually resulted in significant debt,' she recounted.

'I also used credit to finance a trip to Europe, which was an amazing experience, but something I could have been more responsible about.'


As Jacqueline's debt climbed to $40,000, the gravity of her situation finally hit home.

'It was a shocking wake-up call that my spending habits had spiralled out of control,' she admitted.

'It had reached a point where I was using buy now, pay later services to pay for essentials like fuel and food, and even cat food. I had an outlay of $1000 each fortnight that I had to repay with BNPL.'

The stress caused by her predicament was overwhelming, as it kept her up at night and paradoxically drove her to spend more as a temporary salve for her anxiety.

'The weight of the debt was daunting, and I knew I had to make significant changes to my financial behaviour to overcome it.'

Jacqueline had to exercise immense discipline and devise a plan to tackle her debt.

She took on extra work—online surveys, mystery shopping, tutoring—and educated herself on financial management.

Her bank's financial program also provided a lifeline, offering the support and guidance she needed to pay off her debt.


Since then, Jacqueline brought her debt to just over $4,000.

'It has been hard work, and I have had to forgo many things. Part of this journey involved being honest with myself and others,' she said.

She learned to overcome the shame and embarrassment associated with debt.

She found solace and support in being open about her financial struggles.

Jacqueline's story is a cautionary tale about the seductive dangers of BNPL services.

While these could come in clutch, they could also lead to rapid debt accumulation if not used responsibly.

It's a reminder to be mindful of our spending and to resist the temptation of impulse purchases.
Key Takeaways

  • Jacqueline, a 34-year-old NSW local, found herself $40,000 in debt after using buy-now-pay-later (BNPL) services for impulsive purchases.
  • She embraced BNPL to make larger purchases and eventually used it for surgery and an overseas trip.
  • Her debt accumulation led to stress, the need to take on multiple jobs, and a financial management program to minimise her debt.
  • Jacqueline warned of the dangers of BNPL services without responsible budgeting and emphasised the importance of mindful spending and open conversations about finances.
What are your thoughts about buy-now-pay-later services? Have you found them helpful, or have they tempted you into overspending? Share your insights with us in the comments section below.
 
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Just don't use these pay later services. Cash you can manage better spending habits, but these credit traps are hard to keep track of, then it balloons and it's too late your in over your head. I don't own a credit card but use my debit card if needed for online shopping. That great bargain you thought you got ends up costing triple.
 
I use Afterpay, but never let it get out of control, I diligently pay it fortnightly, it has let me buy items that you can pay over four fortnightly payments, it’s a great way to buy things without a large initial outlay, but you have to buy within your capabilities to pay back on time. It’s great but you need to only buy what you are capable of repaying fortnightly ❤️
 
If you can't afford it just don't purchase it. Or layby it you will get it later than sooner and appreciate your purchase more.
Is it a need or a want?
Take a minute to think. Two minutes of the joy of your purchase is not worth the debt
Kind regards to all Vicki
 
BNPL services are a trap mainly used by people who have spending habits that are larger than their income, if any of these people applied for a credit card from one of the banks their application would be refused, it is a common misconception that with BNPL services you do not pay as much interest on your purchases as you would with a credit card WRONG you pay interest every time that you are late with a payment. there are no questions asked around your income, disposable or not when you join one of the BNPL services, everyone is accepted and can have as many accounts as they apply for, and for any one who will spend more than they can afford on a regular basis this is a recipe for financial disaster.
 
I'd never use this service. Unfortunately, people want instant gratification, and then have to deal with the consequences when the bill comes in! To me these services are very similar to payday loans and should be strictly monitored by government authorities.
 
These afterpay services are jydt a recipe for disaster. Great for those that can yse them responsibly but far too many cannot and often it is used for purchases that are frivolous. The advertising for these afterpay "services" should not be allowed either in my opinion. But well done to this lady for working hard and getting herself out of debt. A good lesson learnt for her.
 
I have used Afterpay for items such as tyres and battery. But I am very careful in planning my spending so as not to fall into this trap. Don't blame BNPL for your weakness. Don't make it harder for us who manage our spending to be penalised for your bad judgement. BNPL is very handy for pensioners like myself who don't have excess funds available at that moment. All I can say is, the young adults want it now and can't wait to pay one off before borrowing for more.
 
Not a goody two shoes at all, with quite a list of online spending on 'my foolish decisions' list, but if a significant expense I always ask myself when I see something that attracts me, " Do I want it or do I need it? " I have saved myself some serious dollars over the years. The idea of 'buy now pay later' never appealed, if I have the money then decide yay or nay ..the only time I used was the good old-fashioned lay-by system you paid ahead before you received the item. Great for those special things or planned gifts for the children. Win-win for sellers. I wonder if it is still current as the storage of those items you could collect anytime could prove ponderous!!
 
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If you can't pay when you purchase, don't buy it. I have no sympathy for people who go stupid raking up credit when they know they can't pay.
The Stupidity virus and the EV virus go hand in hand.
 
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Not a goody two shoes at all, with quite a list of online spending on 'my foolish decisions' list, but if a significant expense I always ask myself when I see something that attracts me, " Do I want it or do I need it? " I have saved myself some serious dollars over the years. The idea of 'buy now pay later' never appealed, if I have the money then decide yay or nay .. the only time I used was the good old-fashioned lay-by system you paid ahead before you received the item. Great for those special things or planned gifts for the children. Win-win for sellers. I wonder if it is still current as the storage of those items you could collect anytime could prove ponderous!!
l haven't used laybys for a while now but they are handy if you see something you want and just don't have enough money at the time
 
I use Afterpay, but never let it get out of control, I diligently pay it fortnightly, it has let me buy items that you can pay over four fortnightly payments, it’s a great way to buy things without a large initial outlay, but you have to buy within your capabilities to pay back on time. It’s great but you need to only buy what you are capable of repaying fortnightly ❤️
I use Afterpay too never gets out of control definitely not upto $40,000 so she should only blame herself
 
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I’m a pensioner and love the Afterpay system
No excuse to get into debt you know you have to pay whatever you buy has to be paid by 4 payments over 8 weeks and you are even notified the due dates when it has to be paid.
Don’t spend what you can’t afford to pay back in four payments the onus is on you.
 
I use Afterpay & never had a problem because I don’t buy unnecessary rubbish which a lot of the young ones do, things they probably really don’t need. They have to wake up & realise that just because the payment isn’t coming out of their pocket straight away doesn’t mean they don’t have to pay it back. Sorry but their own fault, you can’t blame Afterpay.
 

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