Aussie Couple Receives Note about Their Crying Baby. You Won't Believe What It Says!
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Caring neighbours are a blessing whether you're young or old, but for new parents they really can make all the difference. Unfortunately, not all neighbours are as understanding or accommodating as we'd like, so it's always such a pleasant surprise when we find a decent and considerate neighbour like the one Western Australia mother, Amy Marks, found.
It wasn't long ago that Marks was still learning the ropes of motherhood. With a newborn and a 21-month-old son ‘in her hands’ it’s no surprise her household was often filled with the sound of a crying baby.
But just when she was getting anxious about keeping the neighbours awake, a very special surprise with a note outside her door made her day: 'Hey, we are your neighbours from behind you,' the note read, 'We have heard your little bub crying a few times and thought we would drop off some nappies and wipes as we know how tough the early days are! We hope this brightens your day.'
Marks posted a photo of the gesture on social media and said that their baby is quite restless and 'often doesn't settle until 10pm'.
'We were worried about keeping the neighbours awake but it’s warming to know that some people understand the nighttime struggle,' she said.
Marks also shared that a lot of parents have it harder than she does, so the thoughtful gesture of her neighbours was greatly appreciated.
Indeed, a number of other Aussie parents took to social media to express their pleasant surprise at the heartening gesture.
'More people should be neighbours like this,' one person commented. 'Gifts and understanding, what more can you ask for?' another said. 'What wonderful neighbours to have. That brought tears to my eyes,' a third wrote.
As it turns out, the Marks' experience wasn't a unique case either. Many other mothers shared their own experiences with compassionate neighbours:
'50 years ago, my baby daughter was born in a small Central Queensland town,' one commenter wrote. 'I was coping reasonably well but we had a prolonged period of wet weather and I really struggled to get nappies dry. Suddenly a neighbour from across the road appeared at my door with a pile of dry, folded nappies. Her five children were all well past the nappy stage but she still had them stored away. What an angel. I had never been so grateful in my life before and not since either.'
Another said: 'I had a lovely neighbour who used to come hold and cuddle my twins while we chatted and it helped me get a few things done.'
Acts of kindness, such as the one demonstrated by this Aussie couple's neighbours, are not only endearing but also deeply rooted in human psychology. When understanding why people perform acts of kindness, it is essential to recognise the underlying principles of empathy, compassion, and altruism, which drive human beings to help others.
Empathy is the innate ability to understand and share the feelings of others, often spurring us to alleviate someone's discomfort or stress.
While compassion is an emotional response that goes a step further, sensing not just one’s difficulties but wishing to alleviate it.
Lastly, altruism or selfless concern for the well-being of others plays a significant role in acts of kindness. Altruistic actions often come with no expectation of reciprocation or reward. They are fuelled by the simple joy of giving and making others' lives a bit easier.
Studies have also shown that these altruistic behaviours can significantly boost the mood of the helper or 'giver', often referred to as a ‘helper's high’. Acts of kindness activate the region in your brain associated with pleasure, social connection, and trust. So, not only does it make the receiver's life better, but it can also positively impact the mental health of the giver.
Hence, the psychology behind acts of kindness is fascinating. It proves that not only do they make our neighbourhoods friendlier and more supportive, but they contribute to individual happiness as well. It's, indeed, a win-win situation for everyone involved! Let's not underestimate the power of a kind act and propagate this cycle of positivity.
It is heartwarming to see such compassionate stories being shared. After all, parenthood can be challenging at times, so it's amazing to see a community come together to support one another. Let's make sure we all do our part to keep each other and our neighbourhood safe and friendly!
You may want to pay it forward and show a little kindness to anyone that resides near you – they sure will appreciate it! Do you have some stories like these acts of kindness? Share some in the comments below!
It wasn't long ago that Marks was still learning the ropes of motherhood. With a newborn and a 21-month-old son ‘in her hands’ it’s no surprise her household was often filled with the sound of a crying baby.
But just when she was getting anxious about keeping the neighbours awake, a very special surprise with a note outside her door made her day: 'Hey, we are your neighbours from behind you,' the note read, 'We have heard your little bub crying a few times and thought we would drop off some nappies and wipes as we know how tough the early days are! We hope this brightens your day.'
A thoughtful and caring neighbour indeed! We need more of their kind! Image: Facebook.
Marks posted a photo of the gesture on social media and said that their baby is quite restless and 'often doesn't settle until 10pm'.
'We were worried about keeping the neighbours awake but it’s warming to know that some people understand the nighttime struggle,' she said.
Marks also shared that a lot of parents have it harder than she does, so the thoughtful gesture of her neighbours was greatly appreciated.
Indeed, a number of other Aussie parents took to social media to express their pleasant surprise at the heartening gesture.
'More people should be neighbours like this,' one person commented. 'Gifts and understanding, what more can you ask for?' another said. 'What wonderful neighbours to have. That brought tears to my eyes,' a third wrote.
As it turns out, the Marks' experience wasn't a unique case either. Many other mothers shared their own experiences with compassionate neighbours:
'50 years ago, my baby daughter was born in a small Central Queensland town,' one commenter wrote. 'I was coping reasonably well but we had a prolonged period of wet weather and I really struggled to get nappies dry. Suddenly a neighbour from across the road appeared at my door with a pile of dry, folded nappies. Her five children were all well past the nappy stage but she still had them stored away. What an angel. I had never been so grateful in my life before and not since either.'
Babies just need time, attention and a little bit of extra love to make their day brighter! Image: Freepik.
Another said: 'I had a lovely neighbour who used to come hold and cuddle my twins while we chatted and it helped me get a few things done.'
Acts of kindness, such as the one demonstrated by this Aussie couple's neighbours, are not only endearing but also deeply rooted in human psychology. When understanding why people perform acts of kindness, it is essential to recognise the underlying principles of empathy, compassion, and altruism, which drive human beings to help others.
Empathy is the innate ability to understand and share the feelings of others, often spurring us to alleviate someone's discomfort or stress.
While compassion is an emotional response that goes a step further, sensing not just one’s difficulties but wishing to alleviate it.
Lastly, altruism or selfless concern for the well-being of others plays a significant role in acts of kindness. Altruistic actions often come with no expectation of reciprocation or reward. They are fuelled by the simple joy of giving and making others' lives a bit easier.
Studies have also shown that these altruistic behaviours can significantly boost the mood of the helper or 'giver', often referred to as a ‘helper's high’. Acts of kindness activate the region in your brain associated with pleasure, social connection, and trust. So, not only does it make the receiver's life better, but it can also positively impact the mental health of the giver.
Hence, the psychology behind acts of kindness is fascinating. It proves that not only do they make our neighbourhoods friendlier and more supportive, but they contribute to individual happiness as well. It's, indeed, a win-win situation for everyone involved! Let's not underestimate the power of a kind act and propagate this cycle of positivity.
It is heartwarming to see such compassionate stories being shared. After all, parenthood can be challenging at times, so it's amazing to see a community come together to support one another. Let's make sure we all do our part to keep each other and our neighbourhood safe and friendly!
You may want to pay it forward and show a little kindness to anyone that resides near you – they sure will appreciate it! Do you have some stories like these acts of kindness? Share some in the comments below!
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