Attention Older Australians: Are You Making This Surprising Change to Your Will? Find Out Why Many Are Going Against Tradition!

In the ever-evolving landscape of family dynamics and financial planning, a significant shift is occurring in the way older Australians are approaching their wills and the distribution of their inheritance. Gone are the days when it was a given that children would be the primary beneficiaries of their parents' estates. Instead, a growing number of seniors are choosing to leapfrog a generation, directing their legacies to their grandchildren. This trend is not just a passing fad but a reflection of changing societal norms and economic pressures.

Isabelle Marcarian, a principal solicitor at Safewill Legal, has observed this trend firsthand. She notes that many grandparents in their 60s to 80s are seeing their children, who are in their 40s to 60s, as financially stable and well-established. Consequently, they are turning their attention to their grandchildren, particularly those in their 20s and 30s, who may be struggling with the daunting realities of the property market and the cost-of-living crisis.


The statistics from Safewill Legal are telling: there has been a tripling in the proportion of wills including grandchildren as beneficiaries, over the last five years. Even more striking is the 225 per cent increase in wills that bypass children entirely in favor of grandchildren. The share of inheritance going to grandchildren has more than doubled, from 5 per cent to 12 per cent, in the same period.


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More older Australians left their inheritance to grandchildren instead of children due to high living costs and property market issues. Credit: Shutterstock


This generational skip can often be attributed to the grandparents' desire to provide for the younger generation, who may be disillusioned with their financial prospects. The rising costs of home ownership and rent, coupled with the broader cost-of-living crisis, have made it increasingly difficult for young adults to achieve the same level of financial security that their parents may have enjoyed.


Interestingly, this decision to favor grandchildren in wills is typically made with the understanding and consent of the children. Markarian points out that many parents recognise the benefits for their own children and agree with the decision, as it is made out of love and concern for the family's future.

However, there's a more sombre reason behind some of these decisions. Grandparents are concerned about the potential for their children's marriages to end in divorce, which could result in their assets leaving the family. By passing their inheritance directly to their grandchildren, they aim to keep the wealth within the bloodline for a longer period.

Take the case of Isabel Almendrades, who has named her grandchildren as the sole beneficiaries of her will. Her daughter, Vanessa, supports her decision, recognising that the wealth her mother accumulated should be distributed as she sees fit. Vanessa understands that her mother's joy and connection with her grandchildren have inspired this choice.


The broader context of inheritance in Australia is also changing. The Productivity Commission estimates that around $3.5 trillion will be transferred intergenerationally from Baby Boomers. Finder's research indicates that a third of Australians expect to receive an inheritance, with varying expectations about the amount and timing.

Yet, there's another movement gaining traction: the Spending the Kids' Inheritance (SKI) movement. Individuals like single mum Trudy Wertheim and the Rylands are choosing to use their savings to enjoy their later years, travelling and experiencing life to the fullest, rather than leaving a substantial inheritance.

This shift in inheritance practices raises important questions for older Australians. Are you considering making changes to your will that reflect these trends? How do you balance the desire to support your grandchildren with the expectations of your children? And for those who are part of the SKI movement, how do you communicate your intentions to your family to ensure understanding and avoid potential conflicts?


As we navigate these complex decisions, it's crucial to have open and honest conversations with family members about our wishes and the reasoning behind them. Whether you're planning to support your grandchildren directly, help your children, or enjoy your hard-earned savings, it's essential to ensure that your will reflects your true intentions.
Key Takeaways
  • An increasing number of older Australians are opting to leave their inheritance to their grandchildren instead of their children, a trend influenced by the high cost of living and property market disillusionment amongst younger generations.
  • Legal experts from Safewill Legal have noticed a significant rise in wills that include grandchildren as beneficiaries, with a 225 per cent increase in wills completely bypassing children in favour of grandchildren.
  • Some older Australians are concerned that leaving their inheritance to their children could be at risk due to potential divorces. Hence, they prefer to transfer wealth directly to their grandchildren.
  • While many Australians anticipate an inheritance, the 'Spending the Kids' Inheritance' (SKI) movement reflects a shift towards older generations using their savings to enjoy their retirement rather than leaving a large inheritance.
We invite our readers to share their thoughts and experiences. Have you made a similar change to your will, or are you considering it? How has your family reacted to these discussions? Join the conversation below and let us know how you're approaching this delicate topic.
 
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We actually haven't written a will. I only asked two of my daughters if they would be executor's. I told hubby a few days ago we need to make one . We own our house plus money in the bank so we have to do it asap.

I will be leaving everything equally divided between my children then they can give what they want to their kids
 
all my family will get a share of my will, all the great grand children will have their share put into trust funds until they are 21 an age where they will be looking for extra money.
 
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We had only had our new wills written last year but now that my husband is having an affair with who is now clearly a former best friend I need to make another will fairly quickly. I wanted to have my grandchildren included so now I can do what I want.
 
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Our last will update only changed because we wanted to simplify it.
We did start out by giving this much and that much to different people, but family dynamics are such, you cannot be sure the dark waters of greed wont be stirred up.
So, everything will go to the surviving spouse if one of us goes before the other.
When we are both gone, our two boys are 50:50 of all assets.
If one or both of them have passed away, then their children will receive the 50%
I am hopeful that won't happen. I do know that anything we leave to our two boys will indeed go to the well being of their kids. All of our grand children are at Uni age, or getting close to that. If they need help with funding their studies, their parents are the types who will help them with that so they do not enter the work force with a huge debt.
If they choose not to go to Uni, then they still will be sure to receive support from their parents in one form of another.
As well as our wills, we have chosen to give certain things to people of our choosing while we are alive. It saves the executors (our 2 boys), having to go through the drama of specifics. A few things have already been passed on, and it felt really good to pass on our precious bits and pieces to people who appreciate them.
It's not really rocket science. Just do what you feel is the right in your heart.
 
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Equal shares to our 3, but only after a certain percentage goes first to our 3 grandchildren of our total assets including anything left in super, sale of house, contents & bank.

Out of our childrens’ percentages of total they each will receive, 50% goes straight into their superannuation and balance 50% into their bank accounts. We were advised to state inheritances in percentage form rather than specific $ amounts as we could live a long time and may not have those specific $ figures to leave. Inheritance to grandchildren to be controlled by their parents until age 21-25 at least but has not been specified in our Wills.

We’ve been asking our children to get their act together and make or update their own Wills but seems to be falling on deaf ears at present. Would need to get the big stick out soon!!

We also have an 85 year neighbour with 4 children, heaps of grandchildren & even more than that in great grandchildren. I’ve been urging her to get her Will re-done as the original Executors have both died and if no new Will & new Executors then the government lawyers/Public Curator will take over distribution which could take extended time and cost money.
 
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I am a SKI person however I do not have children so am not spending their inheritance. I have bequeathed everything to my beautiful niece who is fully supportive of my adventures & really doesn't care about my assets but whatever is left goes directly to her
 
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My parents wanted to skip a generation. Their grandchildren were young. How do they know what type of person they will become. Having alcoholics and possibly drug in the family I was happier that dad changed his mind. As it turned out siblings passed very early and their children received the bank accounts anyway.
 
My wife has everything we had no chavvies, if she pops off before me I get everything In which case I'll rent it out to a family with the possible option to purchase and I'm going to hit the road and go by public transport , shanks pony Get that in my soul again.
 
Not something my wife and I even thought about 3 years ago when we had our wills redone in Australia and won't be changing anything.

Our son and daughter in law will get everything and they can give some money to their 2 kids who are currently 5 and 2, but hopefully will be much older when we pop off. 😁
 

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