Apartment drama explodes after mysterious notes—Are you making this mistake with your neighbors?

Moving into a new apartment complex can be a bit like starting at a new school—there’s the excitement of a fresh start, the hope of friendly neighbours, and, sometimes, the awkwardness of not quite knowing all the unwritten rules.

But for one Aussie resident, their first week in a new home took a dramatic turn thanks to a flurry of sticky notes and a classic case of mistaken identity in the car park.



Let’s set the scene: our protagonist had just settled into their new digs, enjoying the peace and quiet, when suddenly, their car became the centre of a neighbourhood storm. Returning to their vehicle, they found it plastered with a series of increasingly irate sticky notes. The messages ranged from stern reminders to full-blown accusations:

- 'RESPECT YOUR NEIGHBOUR and stop parking in their paid, assigned spot. It’s just rude!'
- 'I’ve tried to be kind but you ignored my note. You could’ve been towed [over] a week ago. PLEASE let me park in the spot I’ve had for years! Thanks!'
- 'I PAY FOR THIS SPOT and would like to use it. Please and thank you.'
- 'NOT YOUR SPOT. PLEASE STOP taking it! THANK YOU.'

Talk about a frosty welcome! The resident, understandably rattled, was left wondering if they’d made a rookie mistake and parked in the wrong spot.

But here’s where the story takes a turn for the better—and a lesson for us all.


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A new resident found several aggressive sticky notes on their car, accusing them of parking in someone else’s assigned spot, despite being in the correct space. Image source: Reddit.



Instead of firing off a retaliatory note or stewing in confusion, the resident did the sensible thing: they went straight to the building office to confirm their parking assignment.

The verdict? They were indeed parked in their rightful spot. Crisis averted!

Armed with this knowledge, the resident decided to clear the air. They removed the angry notes and left a polite message of their own: 'I checked with the office and this is my spot. You should check with them too.'

Hours later, their note had disappeared—and, thankfully, so had the drama. No new notes appeared, and peace was restored.



The incident quickly became a hot topic online, with commenters divided between outrage and amusement.

Many felt the note-leaver had jumped the gun, with one person quipping, '‘Respect Your Neighbours’ proceeds to leave you passive aggressive notes.'

Another added, 'That’s so embarrassing for them. They should leave an apology note or come up and apologise in person.'

Some even speculated that the notes might have been intended for someone else entirely. 'Given that one of the notes refers to previous notes that have been ignored, I’m betting that they sent their kid(s) out to land this series of notes and the kid(s) left them on the wrong car by mistake,' mused one commenter.

Another wondered if the notes had been recycled from another car altogether.



This sticky-note saga is a timely reminder of the importance of clear communication and a little neighbourly patience.

Apartment complexes can be a minefield of misunderstandings—especially when it comes to shared spaces like car parks, laundry rooms, and communal gardens.

Here are a few tips to keep the peace with your neighbours:

1. Double-Check Before You Act: If you think someone’s in your spot, confirm with building management before leaving a note (especially an angry one!).
2. Be Polite and Direct: If you do need to communicate, a friendly face-to-face chat is almost always better than a passive-aggressive note.
3. Assume Good Intentions: Mistakes happen, especially when people are new. A little understanding goes a long way.
4. Know Your Rights: If you’re unsure about your parking spot or any other building rule, don’t hesitate to ask the office for clarification.

Read more: What would you do? Woman captures jaw-dropping moment in viral car park clash

Key Takeaways
  • A new resident found several aggressive sticky notes on their car accusing them of parking in someone else’s assigned spot, despite being in the correct space.
  • Commenters online thought the hostile notes were unwarranted and embarrassing for the person who left them, with some suggesting they might’ve been placed on the wrong car by mistake.
  • After confirming with the building office that the car park space was indeed theirs, the resident left a polite note clarifying the situation for the other party.
  • Since leaving that note, no further notes have appeared, suggesting the misunderstanding was resolved peacefully.

Have you ever been on the receiving end of a mysterious note, or accidentally ruffled feathers in your building? How did you resolve it? Share your experiences in the comments below!
 

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My daughter moved into a townhouse around 18 months ago.
They have two cars and parked one in their designated spot. The other car which my daughter drove would park in front of their garage for a short time to unload shopping ect. Before she had time to move the car into street parking the neighbour opposite would be knocking on her door telling her she can't park there. Turns out this woman was on the strata board and owns the property oppositemy daughter.

This woman would constantly be looking out her window. My daughter even noticed the neighbour who was actually named Karen had her cameras pointed directly at my daughters home.

My daughter started receiving emails about the parking even though she stopped parking there.

When my daughter contacted the agent turns out the emails were coming directly from strata. The agent told her she was allowed to park there to unload .

They had a few more complaints until my daughter knocked on her door and told her if it continued she would put I a complaint with the rental board for harassment and slander.
Complaints then stopped .

When the owner and agent did there routine inspection they were shocked at how much my daughter had done, including laying down new grass in the backyard which was nothing but dead yellow grass and dirt when they moved it. Also their front yard is the nicest on their street. They are in a gated community.
 
Engage brain before putting mouth into gear.
 
⛔️WARNING: you never REALLY know who your neighbour is.
Just a few weeks ago I found out about drama between two neighbouring households. In one house was a business friend of mine, her husband and their dog. In the other house was a man and I don't know who else or if he had pet(s). Their ongoing issue was regarding parking and possibly a dog. The feud had gone on for quite a while. All people were apparently well liked by the others in the neighbourhood. It all changed in late July this year. The neighbour broke in to my friend's home and shot her, her husband and their dog. All murdered! Then their neighbour went home and shot himself. The whole community is shocked and horrified. Some knew of a 'tiff' between them but nobody had any inkling of how far one of their own would go.

Don't fall into the trap of thinking you know what's going on in the mind of someone else. Some may believe they are stable and good people but in fact they are completely mentally unstable and planning their attack.
 
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My daughter moved into a townhouse around 18 months ago.
They have two cars and parked one in their designated spot. The other car which my daughter drove would park in front of their garage for a short time to unload shopping ect. Before she had time to move the car into street parking the neighbour opposite would be knocking on her door telling her she can't park there. Turns out this woman was on the strata board and owns the property oppositemy daughter.

This woman would constantly be looking out her window. My daughter even noticed the neighbour who was actually named Karen had her cameras pointed directly at my daughters home.

My daughter started receiving emails about the parking even though she stopped parking there.

When my daughter contacted the agent turns out the emails were coming directly from strata. The agent told her she was allowed to park there to unload .

They had a few more complaints until my daughter knocked on her door and told her if it continued she would put I a complaint with the rental board for harassment and slander.
Complaints then stopped .

When the owner and agent did there routine inspection they were shocked at how much my daughter had done, including laying down new grass in the backyard which was nothing but dead yellow grass and dirt when they moved it. Also their front yard is the nicest on their street. They are in a gated community.
 
There is no way you'd get me buying into this shite strata title bloody nonsense
 
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Why aren't individual car spaces marked according to apartment number? If I find a vehicle parked in @DLHM's spot, they would suffer four shredded tyres, a minimum of four shattered windows and every panel dented BEFORE any questions are asked. No warning note, only tens of thousands of dollars worth of damage. It would be torched, but the car space in is a basement.

Strata management and their by-laws are absolute scum. Being falsely accused of a couple of strata "breaches", without evidence, these pricks can take a short walk off a high cliff.

Emerson Raine Subiaco, you have been warned.
 
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paint the bloody number on the car park. end of story, friendship all round.
 
Why aren't individual car spaces marked according to apartment number? If I find a vehicle parked in @DLHM's spot, they would suffer four shredded tyres, a minimum of four shattered windows and every panel dented BEFORE any questions are asked. No warning note, only tens of thousands of dollars worth of damage. It would be torched, but the car space in is a basement.

Strata management and their by-laws are absolute scum. Being falsely accused of a couple of strata "breaches", without evidence, these pricks can take a short walk off a high cliff.

Emerson Raine Subiaco, you have been warned.
Hey Vegg. You will never be accused of being passive aggressive. Hilarious.
 
I have lived in units run by body corporation. One had 25 units . Some units had single garage and parking spot in front for second car others had double garage and couldn’t park in front because it blocked traffic .There were 6 visitor car parks I had single garage and car park in front . Families grow and before long Mum, Dad and Son, daughter , buy a car well they allotted them the visitors car park . As I am blind and did not own a car the body corporate allowed them to park in my space in front of garage . That meant when I had visitors there were arguments when we came home had to chase after whomevers car it was so that we could put car in garage , Same if you wanted to go out early in a m.
Now I live in different state and gated area 41 units we all have double garages BUT there is always the ones that want 3 cars and park in visitor car park ! BIG arguments then OR else they park in front of garage door and block people from getting out .
Perhaps Veggiepatch could hire himself out to a few of these places . There is many a time I would have liked to see that happen . Might get a few body corporations to look at their rules too
 
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