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A sudden windfall or a test of character? A teen's choice reveals what research says about human nature

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A sudden windfall or a test of character? A teen's choice reveals what research says about human nature

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A young man's recent action could be a reflection of the attitude prevalent among today's youth. Disclaimer: This image is not reflective of the article's content. Image Credit: Pexels/Cori Emmalea Rodriguez

Picture yourself walking past a Gold Coast petrol station when you spot a thick bundle of cash on the ground. No one's around, no security cameras pointed your way—just you and someone else's hard-earned money. What would you do?



For 17-year-old Josh Pache, the answer came without hesitation. When he found $3,500 outside a Tugun service station on a Friday afternoon, the teenager didn't pause to consider his options. He walked inside, handed the money to the staff, and then left without providing his name.



What happened next turned a quiet act of honesty into a story that has captivated Australia and revealed some fascinating truths about human nature.


From panic to praise

The money belonged to Daniel McKellar, director of Coastal Demolitions, who had just collected the cash after dropping copper at a scrap metal yard. During a quick coffee stop at The Fox's Pantry, the bundle slipped from his pocket without him noticing.



'I freaked out that I had lost the money because I couldn't find it in the car,' McKellar told news outlets. The tradie's panic was understandable - $3,500 represents a significant amount of money for any small business.



When McKellar rang the petrol station, hoping against hope, staff delivered news that stunned him: 'a young man had handed the money in without any hesitation'. After viewing the CCTV footage, McKellar took to social media with a simple request: help him find the honest teenager so he could express his gratitude.




'I couldn't live if I took someone else's hard-earned money. It just didn't feel right.'

- Josh Pache



Within hours, Josh's mother spotted her son in the widely shared video during lunch with friends. The teenager, who hadn't even mentioned finding the money at home, suddenly found himself the centre of a story about integrity that would reach hundreds of thousands of Australians.



What science tells us about honesty

Josh's decision to return such a significant sum might seem exceptional, but global research suggests his behaviour aligns with a surprising truth about human nature. A massive international study involving over 17,000 'lost' wallets across 40 countries found that people were more likely to return wallets containing larger sums of money, with return rates reaching 72 per cent for wallets containing around $100.




Global honesty research findings



International wallet study results:

• 46% returned wallets with no money

• 61% returned wallets with ~$13

• 72% returned wallets with ~$100


Most honest countries: Switzerland, Norway, the Netherlands


Least honest: Peru, Morocco, China




The research reveals a fascinating psychological principle: when there's money in a wallet, people feel more inclined to feel like they're stealing if they don't return it, and the more money the wallet contains, the more people say that it would feel like stealing if they do not return it.



Most people don't want to see themselves as thieves, regardless of the financial temptation. This suggests Josh's moral compass, rather than being unusually strong, reflects something fundamental about how most decent people are wired.




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A Gold Coast-based tradie praised a young man for his actions. Image Credit: Pexels/Damon Hall


A reward that keeps on giving

McKellar's response to Josh's honesty demonstrates the ripple effect of good deeds. True to his word, he rewarded the teenager with $1,000 and offered him a job with Coastal Demolitions once he finishes school. But McKellar didn't stop there.



In a gesture that would make any Australian proud, he donated the remaining $2,500 to a GoFundMe page for Daniel, a Gold Coast father battling stage four cancer. McKellar also initiated another fundraising effort to help Josh purchase the ute he's been saving for.



'I was never expecting the money back, I thought once I lost it... It was already gone, so I'd rather donate that money to a good cause,' McKellar explained.



The other side of the coin: Australia's honesty crisis

Josh's act of integrity stands in stark contrast to Australia's growing problems with dishonesty. Recent data show that Australians suffered $3.1 billion in losses to scams in 2022, with the actual figure likely being significantly higher, as many victims don't report their losses.



Older Australians are particularly vulnerable, with those aged 65 and over losing $120.7 million to scams—a 47.4 per cent increase. The average scam loss of $20,000 can be life-changing, especially for self-funded retirees who may lose their life savings.



Did you know?


Global research indicates that countries with higher rates of primary education tend to have higher rates of lost wallets being returned. Researchers suggest 'what you learn in school is not just math and reading but also social skills, or just more generally how you treat each other'.



This context makes young people like Josh even more precious to our community. In an era where dishonesty costs Australians billions annually, teenagers who choose integrity deserve our attention and appreciation.



The power of good parenting

Josh's mother, Leanne, provided insight into the values that shaped her son's decision. While she initially thought he shouldn't accept McKellar's reward, she changed her mind, wanting to teach him that 'good deeds and good karma deserve to be rewarded with good things in life.'



The teenager's response reveals a character that goes beyond the single act of returning money. Josh hadn't even mentioned finding the cash to his family, suggesting this wasn't about seeking praise but simply doing what felt right.


When good deeds go viral

The story's reach—with video footage viewed over 600,000 times—demonstrates Australians' hunger for positive news. Social media comments praised both Josh and his parents, with one user writing: 'A person whose mother and father were raised well, kindness always wins.'



However, the viral nature of the story also revealed less savoury behaviour. McKellar reported that multiple people attempted to claim Josh's reward, including someone who used AI to create fake images of themselves wearing Josh's clothing. It's a reminder that while most people are honest, some will always try to take advantage of good situations.



Josh's story offers hope in challenging times. While headlines often focus on youth problems or societal breakdown, here's a teenager who chose integrity when no one was watching. His decision reflects values that many Australian families still prioritise, despite cultural pressures.



For older Australians who sometimes worry about younger generations, Josh represents evidence that good parenting and strong community values continue to produce young people of character. His story also highlights how recognising and rewarding good behaviour encourages more of it.



The business owner's generous response—turning his relief into opportunities for both Josh and a cancer patient—shows how individual acts of kindness can multiply through communities. It's a reminder that while Australia faces real challenges with dishonesty and fraud, the foundation of decency remains strong.



Josh is now saving his reward money for a ute, hoping to land an apprenticeship after finishing Year 12. His practical goals and humble attitude suggest this is a young man who understands the value of both money and character—and knows which one matters more.



What do you think shapes young people's moral compass in today's world? Have you witnessed similar acts of honesty that restored your faith in human nature? Share your thoughts and stories in the comments below.

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Josh will go far he has good principles and he obviously has been taught “ Honesty is the best policy “ stick by this and you won’t go wrong good on you Josh. Your Family must be very proud of you. You deserve all praises coming your way..Good luck for the future.
 
Wife and I just returned from Sri Lanka and during the visit we would have some laundry done at the hotel we were staying. On one occasion, we were sitting around having dinner when one of the staf came up and asked if we were in room 321 and lodged some laundry. When we confirmed , he produced a wad of notes. " We found this in the pocket of a pair of your shorts" It was around AUD200 worth of Sri Lankan Rupees!
Very greatful at his honesty and gave him a 5000 Rupee note ( $25 or so).
We could have lost the lot and had no idea of how.
 
Well done Josh. May all your dreams come true. If only there were many more of all ages in our country we really would be the "lucky country". When you are old enough to have kids they will be blessed to have a Dad like you. I also thank your wonderful parents who have raised you. Please stay safe on the roads in your ute.
 
His parents must be so very proud of Josh.

Not many like him, with his honesty, these days.

He must have been brought up with principles & manners.

I hope his future will be kind to him.😊
 
In the early 1980s, I found a plain C5 envelope laying in the gutter at a registered club. I looked in it and saw well over $1000 in paper $50 notes.

A workmate I was with asked what did I have and showed him. He grabbed it and immediately handed it to a barman who also saw the money.

What did the barman do? Shove the envelope in his back pocket and suspiciously disappeared, never to return.

It would have been several week's wages for the opportunist barman. :devilish:
 
Sorry but anything Iv'e lost has remained lost. POX ON THE SHITBAG THAT FOUND IT ALL THEY HAD TO WAS HAND AND COLECT A REWARD. THE LAST THING I LOST WAS A SPECIFIC WEDDING RING NOT WORTH IN GOLD VALUE, MEANINGLESS INSCRIPTION WITHOUT THE OTHER. I NOW CONSIDER IT STOLEN PROPERTY. NO REWARD JUST ETERNAL DAMNATION AS IT WILL NEVER BING ANYBODY PEACE OF MIND.
 
I can recall many decades ago. I finished work and being so tired I stopped at KFC to have a quick meal before going home for a sleep. After paying for the meal I sat in the KFC restaurants placed my bag beside me. I was totally exhausted. When I finished my meal, I stood up and placed the scraps into the trash bin and left to go home. When I got home, I stopped for a moment and realised that I did not have my bag with me. I panicked so much as I had $300 dollars of savings that I was going to put into a savings account. L immediately rang KFC and said I left my bag behind. They asked me to describe the bag, which I did and even specified the contents in my bag. They said yes, one of the cleaners found it and handed it to the manager. When I got to the KFC, I was given my bag and the entire $300 was still in the bag. Such relief. I asked if the cleaner was still there, and yes she was. I approached her and thanked her so much for handing the bag in to the manager. I then opened my handbag, and gave her a $50 note as a token of my appreciation for her honesty and kindness. She refused, but I insisted and she appreciated the offer. Now that was one lucky day for me, and my hard earned cash. From that day onwards, when ever I sit down in public with my handbag, I always hook the long handle of the bag, around one arm, so that I never forget my bag again. Yes there are still honest people within our society, but extremely rare, in these days of financial desperation and wide spread drug addiction. 🙏🦋
 
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Josh is a remarkable young man in today's world and he will go far. His parents should be so proud of how they have brought him up and the world could do with so many more young people like him coming through.
 
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A schoolfriend of mine's 14 year old brother found the proceeds from a Hurstville bank robbery in a Riverwood stormwater drain in about 1977. There was over $14000 in a knapsack and Ray handed it in police.

Two days later, he was killed in a hit and run.

Reverse "karma" at work?
 
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