‘I’ll do anything for my children’: What one Aussie mother says she has to do just to feed her kids

Content Warning: This article discusses poverty, food insecurity, and criminal activity related to financial hardship. It may be distressing for some readers. Discretion is advised.

Australia’s cost-of-living crisis continues to reveal heartbreaking choices faced by everyday families.

What began as a mother’s quiet struggle to keep her children fed has turned into a stark example of the pressure many are under.

Her story, though difficult to hear, is part of a much larger picture unfolding across the country.


An Adelaide mother revealed she regularly resorted to stealing groceries to keep her children fed, as the cost-of-living crisis deepened across the country.

Nakiah*, a single mother of four living in the city’s northern suburbs, said she felt torn between guilt and desperation as she struggled to afford food.

‘I feel guilt but at the same time I don’t because it’s for my children—I’ll do anything for my children,’ she shared.


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Adelaide mum admits to shoplifting for kids. Image source: 7NEWS


The mother admitted to shoplifting at least once a fortnight, describing it as her only option when there wasn’t enough money left for meals.

‘No parent wants to hear your kid say “I’m still hungry” after dinner,’ she said.

While acknowledging that the act frightened her, Nakiah explained the emotional toll of walking through the shops knowing what she was about to do.

‘You walk through (the shops) just watching and knowing I’m about to do something like that—it’s so scary,’ she said.

‘So many people are just brought to guilt and shame to do the wrong thing when they don’t want to.’

‘We can’t do this any more, we can’t keep living like this.’


The Salvation Army’s Red Shield Report 2025, based on a survey of 3,586 people who had received financial or material aid, painted a bleak picture of life under financial stress.

The report found 24 per cent of respondents had eaten expired food to save money, while one in 20 admitted to eating food scavenged from bins.

It also revealed many were forced to skip meals entirely, unable to afford the basics.

Salvation Army spokesperson Robyn Lorimer said families were making drastic sacrifices.

‘We’re finding people would prefer to sit in the dark than put their lights on,’ she said.

‘For some, they’re even having to go to a public toilet or shopping centre just to shower because they can’t justify the water costs.’


The organisation launched its annual Red Shield Appeal with a goal of raising $2 million to support Australians in crisis and prevent them from turning to crime.

Nakiah said the rising cost of essentials—including housing, utilities and groceries—left her with nothing left over to feed her family.

She stressed that theft was always her last resort and hoped her story would shed light on the choices no parent should have to make.

*Name changed for privacy.


Watch the full report below.


Source: Youtube/7NEWS Australia​


Key Takeaways
  • An Adelaide mother admitted to shoplifting fortnightly to feed her four children amid rising living costs.
  • She said guilt was outweighed by the need to prevent her children from going hungry.
  • The Salvation Army’s Red Shield Report 2025 revealed widespread food insecurity and desperate measures across Australia.
  • The charity is aiming to raise $2 million to help struggling families and reduce the need for criminal acts.

With more families facing impossible choices just to get by, is enough being done to support those slipping through the cracks? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.
 

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That's a dreadful state to be in. I can't even begin to imagine life must be like. I was a single mum of two myself and had to watch every cent spent but tne cost of living then wasn't like it is now. I managed but never wasted anything. No coffee out, takeaway ever. Everything cooked at home, that was how it was back then.
 
This is what Albo and his cronies have reduced Australian families to! We were the lucky country not so long ago but now we are a third world country with a government that insists on donating our money to other countries, some of which would rank in the top 15 in affluence.
I feel for the lady but stealing is not the answer, when she is caught (and she will be), who is going to look after her and the family when she is fined and does not have the money to pay the fine. Does she go to jail?
Please people from Channel 7 who filed this report, get in touch with local outlets for her so that they can reach out to her with donated grocery items or shop location so she can provide for her family without the guilt.
 
All very well all you people suggesting she go to food bank or other charities. The small town I live in has nothing like that for anyone needing help. The nearest is a round trip of 80ks, impossible when the only transport is community transport at $20 a trip, that would be hard to justify if the budget was that tight. No mention in the article of where she lives, and if there is any help available.
 
I feel for her but there is no reason to shop lift as there are food pantries, soup kitchens and food charities. Her theft is costing more for others who are also struggling as we have to cover the supermarket's losses.
No-one should judge another
I feel for her but there is no reason to shop lift as there are food pantries, soup kitchens and food charities. Her theft is costing more for others who are also struggling as we have to cover the supermarket's losses.
Unless you have lived in this womans shoes you shouldn't judge.
l know exactly how desperate she must have been as it happened to me in Coffs Harbour.
l lived in a caravan with my four children. David our eldest had gone with his father to Launceston on something we had to finish up there and was uncontactable [no mobile phones then] They were gone longer than expected.
We ran out of money so for the first and only time l went to S.Security for help only to be told unless l said my husband had deserted me l couldn't claim anything. l was appalled that l should have to do this but l had to in the end but the payment was not immediate so l went to the Salvation Army and they gave me a $10 food voucher .There were no other places to go to then .After that we lived on bananas we got with free coupons. l packed up a broken kettle l had the box too and took it back to the shop and got my money back hoping they wouldn't open it and l must admit l stole books and sold them to a second shop.
When your children are hungry you will resort to anything.
 
I feel for her but there is no reason to shop lift as there are food pantries, soup kitchens and food charities. Her theft is costing more for others who are also struggling as we have to cover the supermarket's losses.
Have you ever been to these "charitable" organisations who supply food and other goods for the needy?

In Dandenong, Victoria, there was a church who held such an event weekly on Thursday afternoons. About 95% of the recipients were of Arabic origin who then jumped into their BMW x7s and Mercedes GLB35s with their booty of ill gotten goods. Of course they were holding the latest Apple iPhone in their greasy little mitts.

I suggested to the workers at the church that a person should have proof of receiving a Centrelink age pension or Jobseeker benefits before being eligible to obtain donated goods.

One day when I was there, there were numerous bulk packs of Primo Honey Ham that wasn't touched by the niqab clad camels. The supervisor said I could take as much as I wanted so I lived on ham and cheese sandwiches for the next month!

Freeloading scum of the highest order!
 
This is what Albo and his cronies have reduced Australian families to! We were the lucky country not so long ago but now we are a third world country with a government that insists on donating our money to other countries, some of which would rank in the top 15 in affluence.
I feel for the lady but stealing is not the answer, when she is caught (and she will be), who is going to look after her and the family when she is fined and does not have the money to pay the fine. Does she go to jail?
Please people from Channel 7 who filed this report, get in touch with local outlets for her so that they can reach out to her with donated grocery items or shop location so she can provide for her family without the guilt.
Don’t blame albo it’s been going on for donkeys years.☹️
 
This is what Albo and his cronies have reduced Australian families to! We were the lucky country not so long ago but now we are a third world country with a government that insists on donating our money to other countries, some of which would rank in the top 15 in affluence.
I feel for the lady but stealing is not the answer, when she is caught (and she will be), who is going to look after her and the family when she is fined and does not have the money to pay the fine. Does she go to jail?
Please people from Channel 7 who filed this report, get in touch with local outlets for her so that they can reach out to her with donated grocery items or shop location so she can provide for her family without the guilt.
Australia has not been the "lucky country" since the early 1970s when the influx of Lebanese started. Then came the Vietnamese. The floodgates opened under Howard's tenure with Chinese, Indian, Afghan, Sudanese and Somalians invading our major cities.
 
There are many places she can go for assistance. There are food pantries in many suburbs, food bank is really helpful. I feel for her, but what happens when she is caught and convicted.?
yes there are many places she could go but they are not many if you have no car and no public transport. If caught and convicted she could lose her children, but meantime somehow she has to feed them .
 
Whilst I feel for this woman, I cannot condone theft. I am of the belief that a lot of food poverty comes from the inability of people to cook nutritious meals from scratch. They have been raised on preprepared, processed foods. Admittedly, the price of food has risen astronomically. But, a meal can be stretched by including lentils or brown rice or quinoa. Making a bone broth from beef, lamb, pork, chicken or fish bones can give a basis for preparing nutritious nourishing meals. I truly believe that people have to learn how to cook, not just prepare a meal. Also, no matter how small an area you live in, you can grow veggies in pots and on window sills, helps to eke out the budget.
 
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This is what Albo and his cronies have reduced Australian families to! We were the lucky country not so long ago but now we are a third world country with a government that insists on donating our money to other countries, some of which would rank in the top 15 in affluence.
I feel for the lady but stealing is not the answer, when she is caught (and she will be), who is going to look after her and the family when she is fined and does not have the money to pay the fine. Does she go to jail?
Please people from Channel 7 who filed this report, get in touch with local outlets for her so that they can reach out to her with donated grocery items or shop location so she can provide for her family without the guilt.
It has been going for a long time. I don`t vote for either major party, but you must be a LNP supporter. They don`t do anything either.
 
Have you ever been to these "charitable" organisations who supply food and other goods for the needy?

In Dandenong, Victoria, there was a church who held such an event weekly on Thursday afternoons. About 95% of the recipients were of Arabic origin who then jumped into their BMW x7s and Mercedes GLB35s with their booty of ill gotten goods. Of course they were holding the latest Apple iPhone in their greasy little mitts.

I suggested to the workers at the church that a person should have proof of receiving a Centrelink age pension or Jobseeker benefits before being eligible to obtain donated goods.

One day when I was there, there were numerous bulk packs of Primo Honey Ham that wasn't touched by the niqab clad camels. The supervisor said I could take as much as I wanted so I lived on ham and cheese sandwiches for the next month!

Freeloading scum of the highest order!
I've seen this in Sydney when I went to a local church who received donations to feed the needy.
It made me very angry 😠
 
I would love to see her budget , money coming in and going out.

I would love to show her good hearty meals which are cheap yet very nutritious.

No one should ever judge a mother for trying to feed her children

I remember in my 20s having a discussion with friends on what would be the worst thing you would do to feed you kids if you were very poor.
A few said they would steal, one said Rob a bank, one said find a rich husband and I said the worst thing I would do would be prostitute myself.

Not being able to feed my kids and put a roof over their heads would have been the worst
 
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Have you ever been to these "charitable" organisations who supply food and other goods for the needy?

In Dandenong, Victoria, there was a church who held such an event weekly on Thursday afternoons. About 95% of the recipients were of Arabic origin who then jumped into their BMW x7s and Mercedes GLB35s with their booty of ill gotten goods. Of course they were holding the latest Apple iPhone in their greasy little mitts.

I suggested to the workers at the church that a person should have proof of receiving a Centrelink age pension or Jobseeker benefits before being eligible to obtain donated goods.

One day when I was there, there were numerous bulk packs of Primo Honey Ham that wasn't touched by the niqab clad camels. The supervisor said I could take as much as I wanted so I lived on ham and cheese sandwiches for the next month!

Freeloading scum of the highest order!
That’s the thing isn’t it…..There are always unscrupulous bastards who would take food meant for the needy, and think absolutely nothing about it…..The people who do that are scum….
 

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