Sherril54

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Hi there my name is Sherril, I have been posting for some months now (over 12 months) I did not realise that I should introduce myself, sorry!!

So here i go!
My name is Sherril.
I`m am 70 yrs old and live in the Maitland area NSW.
I have 4 adult children and 2 adult step-children and I`m married to John.
I have always had a full time job until retiring, I worked in the PS sector in a position that required protection of children and supporting families in crisis. I`ve had a busy life and enjoy a number of hobbys i.e soap and candle making, gardening and spending time with my family and friends. I am finding that my transition into retirement is difficult. until recently had no serious health problems. I am looking forward to exchanging ideas and communication with people who are in a similar position to myself. Actually I`m feeling lonely and disappointed with retirement, I don`t know why anyone would look forward to it! I cannot discuss my issues with family or friends their attitiude is just pull yourself together or go and get some professional advise. REALY does anyone else feel like me or am I just being a drama queen and should I settle for this.
 
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Hi Sherril,

Welcome to SDC. I also had not come across the introduction page until just now.

I obviously can’t speak for anyone more than myself but I’m with you 100% about retirement. Retirement came with neurological and physical impairment for me and I can no longer drive. Social isolation and a deep longing for connection with people is almost consuming on occasions.
Familiarity and comfort with other SDC members is growing and I’ve “met” a few people that I would love to sit and have a coffee with.

Residing in the Adelaide Hills might make a catch up for a coffee just a little difficult but I’m happy to have a chat if you feel you need an ear.

I’ll see you around the forum. Take care

Ivory 😁😁
 
Hi Sherril,

Welcome to SDC. I also had not come across the introduction page until just now.

I obviously can’t speak for anyone more than myself but I’m with you 100% about retirement. Retirement came with neurological and physical impairment for me and I can no longer drive. Social isolation and a deep longing for connection with people is almost consuming on occasions.
Familiarity and comfort with other SDC members is growing and I’ve “met” a few people that I would love to sit and have a coffee with.

Residing in the Adelaide Hills might make a catch up for a coffee just a little difficult but I’m happy to have a chat if you feel you need an ear.

I’ll see you around the forum. Take care

Ivory 😁😁
Thank you for your interest, I cannot believe that I have had such an adverse reaction to retirement. I think also there is the issue related to empty nest syndrome. It`s a bit like getting married to someone you have not lived with before, there are lots of surprises and lots of shocks, Anyway I`m like you working it out. Also I too have some health issues that developed post retirement and this has not helped with the situation. Adelaide Hills is quite a distance, but yes love to catch up around the forum.
 
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Hello Sherril! It's never too late for a warm welcome, so let me first say, we're delighted you've decided to introduce yourself! Your vast experience, both professionally in the PS sector aiding children and families and in your personal passions like soap and candle making, gardening, and valuing time with loved ones, adds much richness to our community. It sounds like you've led an incredibly fulfilling and active life, which can indeed make the transition to retirement a significant adjustment. You're definitely not alone in feeling this way. Many find retirement to be a complex period, filled with mixed emotions and unexpected challenges. It's a time where finding new routines, hobbies, and ways to connect can be both daunting and liberating. Considering your interests, you might enjoy engaging more deeply with our Craft's Corner subforum for any soap or candle-making insights (who knows, there might be others keen on starting this hobby!). Most importantly, please know this forum is a safe and supportive space to discuss feelings of loneliness or disappointment with retirement. It's a significant life change, and discussing these feelings openly can often be the first step towards adjusting and finding new joys in this next life chapter. Our community is here to share, listen, and support each other through similar experiences. Feeling disconnected or unsettled during this time doesn't make you a drama queen. It makes you human. If you ever feel it's becoming overwhelming, reaching out for professional advice can also be a positive step. Here, though, you'll find friends ready to chat, share, and offer their own stories and suggestions. Again, welcome, Sherril. We're genuinely pleased to have you with us and look forward to learning more about you and your interests. Here's to new beginnings and discoveries in your retirement journey, with all of us here to support you along the way. Take care and stay safe always!
 
Hi TriciaR,
that was a wonderful welcome, it is very hard to open up and be honest, I think we are all supposed to be "cheery, stiff up lip" and all that. But at 70 yrs nearly 71yrs it`s time I am accepted without having to put on pretence. My family are not happy with the new developments and when things are not right for me I will be letting them know instead of grinning and bearing it. Anyway it is early days, a work in progress. I`m still working on the candle and soap making journey, sharing ideas about this new hobby could be a way off, but I do love it, it is definitely a time of mixed feelings and uncertainty. Thank you so much, this forum is greatly appreciated by me.
 
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