Madonna shares emotional tribute after her brother’s passing at 63

In a recent heartfelt moment, a renowned music icon has opened up about a deeply personal loss. The star took to social media to pay tribute to a close family member, expressing profound sorrow and sharing touching memories.

This emotional revelation has resonated with fans and followers worldwide, highlighting the bond shared between the siblings.

The tribute serves as a reminder of the importance of family and the impact of personal grief on public figures.


Madonna has spoken out for the first time since the passing of her brother, Christopher Ciccone, at the age of 63, sharing an emotional tribute.

The 66-year-old singer posted a series of photos on social media on Sunday, October 6, showcasing moments with her brother, who succumbed to cancer.

In a heartfelt caption, she honoured Christopher, acknowledging that they had mended their relationship after a previous falling out over his tell-all book.


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Madonna posted a heartfelt tribute to her brother, Christopher Ciccone, on social media following his death at 63 from cancer. Credit: Instagram / Madonna


‘My brother Christopher is gone. He was the closest human to me for so long. It's hard to explain our bond. But it grew out of an understanding that we were different and society was going to give us a hard time for not following the status quo,’ the singer wrote.

‘We took each other‘s hands, and we danced through the madness of our childhood. In fact, dance was a kind of superglue that held us together.’

‘Discovering Dance in our small Midwestern town saved me, and then my brother came along, and it saved him too. My ballet Teacher, also named Christopher, created a safe space for my brother to be Gay, a word that was not spoken or even whispered where we lived,’ she added.


The music icon also shared her precious memory with her sibling.

‘When I finally got the courage to go to New York to become a Dancer. My brother followed, and again, we took each other’s hands, and we danced through the madness of New York City!’ Madonna shared.

‘We devoured Art and Music And Film like hungry animals. we were in the epicentre of all of these things exploding.’

‘We danced through the madness of the AIDS epidemic,’ the lengthy tribute continued.

‘We went to funerals, and we cried, and we went dancing. We danced together on stage in the beginning of my career, and eventually, he became my the Creative. Director, of many tours. When it came to good taste, my brother was the Pope, and you had to kiss the ring to get his blessing. [sic]’

‘We defied the Roman Catholic Church, The Police, the Moral Majority and all Authority figures that got in the way of Artistic freedom!’


‘My brother was right by my side. He was a painter, a poet and a visionary. I admired him. He had impeccable taste. And a sharp tongue, Which he sometimes used against me, but I always forgive him.’

‘We soared the highest heights together. And floundered in the lowest lows. Somehow, we always found each other again, and We held hands and we kept dancing.’

‘The last few years have not been easy. We did not speak for some time, but When my brother got sick. We found our way back to each other.’

‘I did my best to keep him alive as long as possible. He was in so much pain towards the end. Once again, we held hands, we closed our eyes, and we danced. Together.’

‘I’m glad he’s not suffering anymore. There will never be anyone like him. I know he’s dancing somewhere,’ Madonna ended her tribute.


In 2008, Christopher Ciccone penned a revealing memoir about his well-known sister, titled Life with my Sister Madonna, which led to a rift between them.

The book unveiled several shocking details about the pop star, including insights into her private relationship with ex-husband Sean Penn.

Additionally, Christopher discussed his strained relationship with Madonna, generating significant negative publicity at the time.

Despite this, Madonna mentioned that they were able to reconcile before his passing.


On Sunday, October 6, Christopher’s publicist confirmed his passing after a battle with cancer. He passed away peacefully on October 4, surrounded by his husband, Ray Thacker, and their loved ones at his home in Michigan.

‘Christopher’s loving spouse was faithfully by his side during the final stages of the cancer that would ultimately end his life,’ his representative stated.

He is survived by his sister, the Queen of Pop, along with their siblings Martin, Paula, Melanie, Jennifer, and Mario.

Additionally, he leaves behind their father, as well as numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

‘He was an extremely talented man with a wicked sense of humour,’ one friend lamented.

His passing followed the death of their stepmother, Joan Clare Ciccone, who passed away on September 24 after a short but intense battle with cancer.


Throughout his career, Christopher worked as a designer, artist, and director, involved in various projects ranging from concert tours and music videos to commercial and residential interior design.

Once Madonna's closest sibling, he began his journey as her assistant, dresser, stylist, and artistic director.

The two grew up together in Michigan, where they shared a love for dance. Christopher later followed Madonna to New York as she embarked on her path to fame and fortune.

Over the years, he served as her personal assistant, dresser, interior decorator, and artistic director for her spectacular world tours.


However, the siblings faced their share of challenges, with Christopher publishing the tell-all memoir where he claimed that Guy Ritchie ‘drove at him’ and acknowledged that he and Madonna ‘never got along’.

He also stated that Madonna's romance with the British director marked the ‘death knell for my relationship with her’.

Christopher also claimed that the ‘Material Girl’ hitmaker was ‘a middle-class girl who propagates the story that she landed in Times Square with just a pair of ballet shoes and $35 to her name’, arguing that this narrative is ‘pure mythology and the further she progresses, the more mythological her life story becomes’.


Like his brothers, Christopher faced challenges with alcohol and drug addiction, with Madonna covering the costs of his rehabilitation stays.

Christopher married British-born Ray Thacker in 2016. Although they spent time apart due to the pandemic, Thacker was ultimately by his side during his cancer battle.

By 2012, their relationship appeared to be improving, according to an interview with the Evening Standard.

‘(We are) on a perfectly personable level right now. As far as I’m concerned, we’re good,’ he shared.

‘We are in contact with each other, although I haven’t seen her for a long time. We’re back to being a brother and sister. I don’t work for her, and it’s better this way.’


Christopher also expressed his pride in his sister, stating, ‘I couldn’t be more proud of her. She is a force to be reckoned with. Does she have Barbra Streisand’s voice? No.’

‘Can she dance like Martha Graham? Probably not. But the combination of her abilities has made her great, and left a huge legacy for her, and through her, for me. So yeah, God bless her.’

In his later years, Christopher moved to the northern part of Michigan's lower peninsula for work and to be closer to family, many of whom are part of his father’s winemaking business, Ciccone Vineyards, located in Sutton's Bay near Traverse City.
Key Takeaways

  • Madonna shared a heartfelt tribute to her brother, Christopher Ciccone, on social media following his passing at 63 due to cancer.
  • In her tribute, she reflected on their deep bond and reconciliation after a period of estrangement caused by his tell-all book.
  • Christopher Ciccone was an artist, designer, and Madonna's creative director for several tours; he was heavily involved in the arts and dance community.
  • Despite past tensions and a public fallout, the siblings managed to reconnect before Christopher's death, and he is remembered fondly by friends and family for his talent and humour.
We invite you to share your own stories of sibling bonds, the challenges you've faced, and the moments of reconciliation that have brought you closer. How have you celebrated the lives of those you've lost, and what comfort have you found in their memories? Join the conversation and let us know in the comments below.
 
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I have a brother 4 years younger than me. I was luckier than him as I spent the first 12 years being raised by my grandparents while he was thrown back n forwards between our parents.

He was like an unwanted kid so whenever I could I was protecting him.

My brother was badly abused including sexually by male friends of our sperm donor.

He escaped into a life of crime and drugs.
I tried as hard as I could to help him but he didn't want help.

He made friends with Australia's most wanted ( that bloke became my brother inlaw fathering kids with 2 of my sisters, that's another story) My brother did armed robberies and eventually was caught and spent time in jail. I think he spent time in jail maybe 6 times and that's not including juvie.
I spent many years not talking to my brother as I felt I needed to protect my kids.
My eldest son went off the rails and got into drugs. I found out that he was hanging around my brother and it was my brother who put the first needle if heroin into my sons arm.

My son was an addict at 17 but by 19 he was completely clean and now at 42 I couldn't be more prouder.

My brother is now also clean. 10 years ago an Aboriginal family took him in and helped he get clean. He was 48 at the time and he will always be thankful to thus family, who are now his second family.

Over the past 8 years he has been looking after our mother and doing a really good job.

Even though she was never there to help or protect him when he was young ,he us now there to help her.

I speak weekly to my brother but unfortunately my husband can't forget what he did to our son.
 
I have a brother 4 years younger than me. I was luckier than him as I spent the first 12 years being raised by my grandparents while he was thrown back n forwards between our parents.

He was like an unwanted kid so whenever I could I was protecting him.

My brother was badly abused including sexually by male friends of our sperm donor.

He escaped into a life of crime and drugs.
I tried as hard as I could to help him but he didn't want help.

He made friends with Australia's most wanted ( that bloke became my brother inlaw fathering kids with 2 of my sisters, that's another story) My brother did armed robberies and eventually was caught and spent time in jail. I think he spent time in jail maybe 6 times and that's not including juvie.
I spent many years not talking to my brother as I felt I needed to protect my kids.
My eldest son went off the rails and got into drugs. I found out that he was hanging around my brother and it was my brother who put the first needle if heroin into my sons arm.

My son was an addict at 17 but by 19 he was completely clean and now at 42 I couldn't be more prouder.

My brother is now also clean. 10 years ago an Aboriginal family took him in and helped he get clean. He was 48 at the time and he will always be thankful to thus family, who are now his second family.

Over the past 8 years he has been looking after our mother and doing a really good job.

Even though she was never there to help or protect him when he was young ,he us now there to help her.

I speak weekly to my brother but unfortunately my husband can't forget what he did to our son.
Living proof that there is always hope.
It is a difficult and heart rending thing to talk about the wrong paths taken by those we care about. Such a healing thing to witness the reversal process in action.
I lost my baby bro some 12 years ago when he was 52. He had no addictions, just health problems.
Those problems lead him to make some poor choices, however, he was a bonza bloke and I miss him terribly.
I was sad to read of your history, but, joyful that you are able to live the better side with them by your side.
Blessings of peace, love & happiness.
 
Sad for Madonna and I'm glad they reconciled, life is too short not too!

I have a brother & sister who are quite a bit younger than me, mum lost a baby when I was 8 so my sister is ten years younger & brother is 11 years younger and we all look out for one another and are VERY close, I always had their back growing up and still do.
 
Al last Karma got him, now its her turn. Evil entities they are.
You obviously don't really know how Karma works as you would never have let
that ugly thought in your thinking, escape out of your mouth. What a horrible
thing to say - i'm not sure why you said it & i don't want to know.
 
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You obviously don't really know how Karma works as you would never have let
that ugly thought in your thinking, escape out of your mouth. What a horrible
thing to say - i'm not sure why you said it & i don't want to know, but guess what,
that energy does not belong on such a platform as SDC.
she is entitled to her opinion just as you have expressed yours. your views expressed as to whats on sdc most would not agree with. i can't talk for the righteous. Karma could be suggested as hokus pokus. think on.
 
I'm not interested in what most would not agree with on SDC, as you have stated, speaking for others, i was talking about the energy, the energy with that statement is Dark - a person should never speak ill of the Dead, so why dont you take your own advice and "Think On" How would you feel if some-one had made a statement in relation to some-one you have lost, it is called Empathy!
i have that in spades for the people who need it. you need a switch for energy.
 
We are not here to insult each other, just to have an opinion if we so choose to put it out their,
we have all Lost someone that may have been very precious pple in our lives, why don't you look at your own energy and understand it before you think you can advise me what i need - my energy remains in the light, not that it is any of your business - you have chosen to attack me the minute i put my opinion up - plse have the courtesy of not making any more replys to me, if you can do that-with your switch of Energy!
It's out there, not out their.
 
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Why do you think they are evil please?
Trust me, they are ALL Evil, the whole family. I cant reveal that sorry. I can reveal though, that she has destroyed a lot of pple in the industry due to her jealousy and hatred of these pple VIA Black Magic. She gave cancer to a well known icon who left us just recently. Not many pple in the industry like her.
 
Trust me, they are ALL Evil, the whole family. I cant reveal that sorry. I can reveal though, that she has destroyed a lot of pple in the industry due to her jealousy and hatred of these pple VIA Black Magic. She gave cancer to a well known icon who left us just recently. Not many pple in the industry like her.
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It's out there, not out their.

You obviously don't really know how Karma works as you would never have let
that ugly thought in your thinking, escape out of your mouth. What a horrible
thing to say - i'm not sure why you said it & i don't want to know.
On the contrary, i DO know how Karma works, you on the other hand, obviously dont.
 
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