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When a small business owner said ‘no’ to a social media personality’s demands—and the internet cheered

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When a small business owner said ‘no’ to a social media personality’s demands—and the internet cheered

Screenshot 2025-10-19 at 11.05.45 PM.png When a small business owner said ‘no’ to a social media personality’s demands—and the internet cheered
Jenna Leurquin and Aurora Griffo’s encounter sparked an online discussion about fairness and authenticity in reviews. Image Source: TikTok / jlpatisserie and luckevalw04.

Sometimes the best response to a bully is simply standing your ground, and that’s exactly what happened when a French pastry chef in Arizona decided she’d had enough of a social media personality’s demands.



The story that’s captured attention worldwide isn’t just about pastries and social media drama—it’s about integrity, quality craftsmanship, and what happens when someone finally stands up to entitled behaviour.



For anyone who’s ever wondered felt frustrated by flashy social media culture overriding genuine quality, this tale has a surprisingly satisfying ending.




When ‘collaboration’ becomes coercion


Jenna Leurquin owns JL Patisserie, a French bakery that’s earned serious recognition—including being a James Beard Award semifinalist for Outstanding Bakery in 2023.



The bakery is celebrated for its French technique and was recently awarded Best Pastries by Phoenix New Times. These aren’t your average corner-shop treats—we’re talking about sourdough starter that takes six months to create, flour imported from Europe, and pistachio paste imported from Italy.



So when social media personality Aurora Griffo, who posts reviews under the name ‘Glamorama’ on social media, reached out requesting a collaboration, Leurquin initially handled it professionally.



The bakery respectfully declined because they didn’t have the budget for it, but then Griffo refused to accept no for an answer. Jenne explained that she allegedly ‘ tried to blackmail us by saying if we offered the food for free, she would write a good review about us.’



The screenshots Leurquin later shared revealed the full picture.



Griffo’s message stated: ‘When it’s a collaboration, I will still do the honest review and highlight/focus on what I enjoyed and be softer/quicker on my words with what I may not like as much. If the experience is terrible, I won’t post anything for the kindness of the hospitality. The meal will need to be comped, including the gratuity.’



When Leurquin said she’d think about it, Griffo showed up the next day anyway—despite no agreement being in place.




The review that backfired spectacularly


Leurquin says her team tried to accommodate the content creator during the visit, pouring her a complimentary shot of espresso and turning down the music at the bakery, but sensed a negative tone from her. Their instincts proved right.



On 7 October, Griffo posted her review, declaring: ‘I do not mind spending 10 dollars on a pastry if they are really good, but you cannot use fake-a** ingredients. That pistachio colour is about as natural as my b****, a** and waistline.’ She also criticised the coffee as ‘super sour and acidic’ and said the quiche had a ‘paper-thin’ crust.



Initially, the review barely registered—after 48 hours, Griffo’s video had only around 8,000 likes.



But Leurquin had seen enough. As a skilled baker who takes pride in her craft, she wasn’t about to let false claims about her ingredients go unchallenged.




A masterclass in standing your ground


On the 9th of October, Leurquin responded with a video that went on to reach more than 60 million views. Without naming Griffo directly, she calmly laid out exactly what had happened, supported by screenshots of the messages.



‘So we totally respect a bad review,’ Leurquin said. ‘But we don’t like lying and bullying.’ She then methodically addressed each criticism, showing viewers the high-quality imported ingredients and explaining the careful processes behind each item.



Leurquin took viewers on a tour of her bakery, demonstrating the care and expertise that go into every pastry.



What made Leurquin’s response so effective was that she stuck to facts, not emotions; provided evidence to back up her claims; focused on defending her craft and team rather than attacking personally; maintained professionalism throughout; and let the quality of her work speak for itself.




Source: TikTok / jlpatisserie



The internet chose quality over influence


The public response was swift and decisive. JL Patisserie’s sales skyrocketed as people lined up around the block to show support, and customers flooded their page with glowing reviews.



The bakery often sells out of its goods, but in recent days, Leurquin said, ‘we sold out so quick,’ with the pistachio pastry that Griffo had criticised becoming ‘by far’ the bestseller.



Meanwhile, Griffo received intense backlash online, including hate comments and threats, and later said she had to temporarily leave her home for safety reasons. She eventually returned to social media to respond, admitting, ‘Someone finally stood up to me. I’ve got to say, kudos—for real. I respect that,’ though she continued to deny lying about her review.



She later apologised and deleted her other posts. Even Keith Lee, one of social media’s most respected food personalities, weighed in on the situation, lending credibility to discussions about reviewer ethics.




Source: TikTok / keith_lee125



What this means for everyday consumers


This incident highlights a concerning trend where some social media influencers expect special treatment in exchange for favourable coverage. For consumers, especially those who rely on reviews to make dining decisions, it raises important questions about authenticity.



As Leurquin put it: ‘My message was to stand up against this type of behaviour and the danger of what influencing can mean on social media.’



When reviewers admit they’ll be ‘softer’ on criticism in exchange for free meals, how can we trust their opinions?




The power of authentic responses


What’s refreshing about this story is how it demonstrates that authenticity still matters to people. Leurquin didn’t hire a PR firm or craft a carefully worded corporate response.



She simply showed her work, explained her standards and let people judge for themselves.



The patisserie’s social media pages have been flooded with new followers and supportive messages, with Leurquin now catching up on responses. It’s a reminder that when you’re genuinely proud of what you create, that passion comes through clearly.



For small business owners, this incident offers a valuable lesson: don’t be afraid to politely but firmly stand up for your standards. Quality speaks for itself, and customers can usually tell the difference between authentic craft and flashy marketing.



Supporting businesses that deserve it


The happy ending to this tale is that good ingredients, skilled craftsmanship and honest business practices won out over social media manipulation.



JL Patisserie is now thriving, with increased recognition for the quality they’ve been delivering all along.



It’s worth remembering that behind every small business are real people who’ve invested their time, money and passion into creating something worthwhile. When we support businesses based on genuine quality rather than social media hype, we’re investing in craftsmanship and authenticity.





Source: TikTok / glamoramaaa



The next time you’re choosing where to spend your money, remember this story.



Sometimes the best recommendation isn’t from a social media personality with millions of followers—it’s from the quality of ingredients, the skill of the craftspeople and the integrity of how they run their business.



Key Takeaways

  • French pastry chef Jenna Leurquin, owner of JL Patisserie in Arizona, stood her ground after social media personality Aurora Griffo demanded free food in exchange for a positive review.
  • After receiving an unfair review, Leurquin calmly responded with facts and transparency, showing proof of her bakery’s high-quality ingredients and craftsmanship.
  • Her video reached more than 60 million views, earning public support and boosting sales as customers lined up to show appreciation for her honesty.
  • The incident reignited discussions about internet culture, reviewer ethics and the importance of integrity, authenticity and respect in small business interactions.

What do you think about social media personalities and their impact on small businesses? Have you ever had a favourite local business that you felt deserved more recognition?



Share your thoughts below—we’d love to hear about the quality businesses in your area that are worth supporting.

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I never go by what social media influences say.
I do read reviews and I do reviews . If there is one or two bad reviews I ignore it.

You can pretty much pick the false reviews.

Im stuck atm about writing a review.
I went to a hairdressers today which is not my normal one. I was just planning a trim then I saw it wasn't much more for a colour.
As I was standing outside looking at their prices a guy came out and asked what I was looking at getting done. He ushered me inside and before I knew it he was putting in foils then coloured ny hair.

My normal hairdresser puts colour then does the foils. So the foils are not left in long.

I was happy with the end result but not 100%.

1. He never asked what colour, he just did it.

2. It was just a trim not a cut n style. It took him 5 minutes

When I first went inside the price was $75. Which sounded very good. Then he asked if I wanted to add a particular thing to the foils which cost $20. I agreed so price went to $95 which is what I usually pay. Then when I went to pay it had jumped to $115. He charged $20 to straighten, which I never asked for nor did he tell me. ( my hairdress dies everything for $90)

This hairdresser is in centro roselands and afterwards I thought what if I didn't have the money.

Now should I write a review so say how pushy and untrustworthy he was , to warn others before going in
 
What did we ever do without 'influencers'? Probably make our own reliable decisions :) 🌷
 
I'm not here to address what stoopid influencers have to say ....

I'm here to complain about all the ads l have to scroll thru or dodge to read one article! It's absolutely ridiculous! It's even worse when your pop-up about memberships takes up the whole screen & l can't read anything. This newsletter is paid for by the ads & membership so WHY do we get ads that cover the articles & the only way we can get rid of them is to tap on it to close it. But, everytime we tap, it pays money towards the ads. I'm not happy with this set-up.

Also you need someone to tweak this site especially the games like solitaire. It lags, freeze, speeds up or and / or just shuts down.

It's bad enough so many stories are falsely titled like clickbait so most times l check BINGO & other games then delete the post.

Okay, I'm done.
 
I'm not here to address what stoopid influencers have to say ....

I'm here to complain about all the ads l have to scroll thru or dodge to read one article! It's absolutely ridiculous! It's even worse when your pop-up about memberships takes up the whole screen & l can't read anything. This newsletter is paid for by the ads & membership so WHY do we get ads that cover the articles & the only way we can get rid of them is to tap on it to close it. But, everytime we tap, it pays money towards the ads. I'm not happy with this set-up.

Also you need someone to tweak this site especially the games like solitaire. It lags, freeze, speeds up or and / or just shuts down.

It's bad enough so many stories are falsely titled like clickbait so most times l check BINGO & other games then delete the post.

Okay, I'm done.
Thank goodness!
 
I'm not here to address what stoopid influencers have to say ....

I'm here to complain about all the ads l have to scroll thru or dodge to read one article! It's absolutely ridiculous! It's even worse when your pop-up about memberships takes up the whole screen & l can't read anything. This newsletter is paid for by the ads & membership so WHY do we get ads that cover the articles & the only way we can get rid of them is to tap on it to close it. But, everytime we tap, it pays money towards the ads. I'm not happy with this set-up.

Also you need someone to tweak this site especially the games like solitaire. It lags, freeze, speeds up or and / or just shuts down.

It's bad enough so many stories are falsely titled like clickbait so most times l check BINGO & other games then delete the post.

Okay, I'm done.
Hi @AmieCoff ! Thanks so much for taking the time to share your thoughts — we really appreciate the detailed feedback. We're sorry to hear the ads and pop-ups have been getting in the way of your experience, that’s definitely not what we want for our members. If you can, could you please send a few screenshots of what these ads look like to [email protected]? That will really help our team identify and fix the issue more quickly. We'’ll also pass along your comments about the ads, pop-ups, and game performance so the team can review them. We’re always working to improve how the site runs and how the articles display, so your feedback is very helpful. Thanks again for letting us know what’s been happening on your end.
 
I'm not here to address what stoopid influencers have to say ....

I'm here to complain about all the ads l have to scroll thru or dodge to read one article! It's absolutely ridiculous! It's even worse when your pop-up about memberships takes up the whole screen & l can't read anything. This newsletter is paid for by the ads & membership so WHY do we get ads that cover the articles & the only way we can get rid of them is to tap on it to close it. But, everytime we tap, it pays money towards the ads. I'm not happy with this set-up.

Also you need someone to tweak this site especially the games like solitaire. It lags, freeze, speeds up or and / or just shuts down.

It's bad enough so many stories are falsely titled like clickbait so most times l check BINGO & other games then delete the post.

Okay, I'm done.
Is your brother Far Coff????
 
I am surprised how much influence these influences have. They come across as so confident and at times so arrogant. They put across the personality as a real expert, which in reality, they are not. They feel very strongly of their right of entitlement which is usually 'nil' and that their views are the 'right views'. They can cause so many problems for others with their ill-informed views, however people believe them and follow their every word. There needs to be a way from social media companies to filter them out, or regulate in some way to protect people especially the venerable and easily lead.
 
I'm not here to address what stoopid influencers have to say ....

I'm here to complain about all the ads l have to scroll thru or dodge to read one article! It's absolutely ridiculous! It's even worse when your pop-up about memberships takes up the whole screen & l can't read anything. This newsletter is paid for by the ads & membership so WHY do we get ads that cover the articles & the only way we can get rid of them is to tap on it to close it. But, everytime we tap, it pays money towards the ads. I'm not happy with this set-up.

Also you need someone to tweak this site especially the games like solitaire. It lags, freeze, speeds up or and / or just shuts down.

It's bad enough so many stories are falsely titled like clickbait so most times l check BINGO & other games then delete the post.

Okay, I'm done.
Im guessing your not a paid member 🤔 They can't run this site for nothing. I have absolutely no problem with the games and I never see an add. I have to say everything you stated was before I became a paying member.

All I can say is pay for a membership or just put up with the ad's
 
Thank goodness!
So you're quite happy to scroll thru more ads than there is of the stories as well as to have them hovering over the words?
 
What did we ever do without 'influencers'? Probably make our own reliable decisions :) 🌷
As far these influencers go.
Those that can, Do.
Those that can't, Preach
 
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So you're quite happy to scroll thru more ads than there is of the stories as well as to have them hovering over the words?
If your a paid member like us you don’t get them that’s why I finally became a paid member.🌞
 
So you're quite happy to scroll thru more ads than there is of the stories as well as to have them hovering over the words?
I have a paid membership and experience no ads! :p :p
 
I never go by what social media influences say.
I do read reviews and I do reviews . If there is one or two bad reviews I ignore it.

You can pretty much pick the false reviews.

Im stuck atm about writing a review.
I went to a hairdressers today which is not my normal one. I was just planning a trim then I saw it wasn't much more for a colour.
As I was standing outside looking at their prices a guy came out and asked what I was looking at getting done. He ushered me inside and before I knew it he was putting in foils then coloured ny hair.

My normal hairdresser puts colour then does the foils. So the foils are not left in long.

I was happy with the end result but not 100%.

1. He never asked what colour, he just did it.

2. It was just a trim not a cut n style. It took him 5 minutes

When I first went inside the price was $75. Which sounded very good. Then he asked if I wanted to add a particular thing to the foils which cost $20. I agreed so price went to $95 which is what I usually pay. Then when I went to pay it had jumped to $115. He charged $20 to straighten, which I never asked for nor did he tell me. ( my hairdress dies everything for $90)

This hairdresser is in centro roselands and afterwards I thought what if I didn't have the money.

Now should I write a review so say how pushy and untrustworthy he was , to warn others before

My first response here would be to write a review about those abnormal practices.

I would suggest you are not the first person to fall foul of this practice.

Other ladies need to be made aware so they can say 'No Thankyou' at any stage for something not wanted & perhaps query treatment at any stage, e.g. different order of foil & colour.
 
Quality of product & service will win all the time.
 
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I never go by what social media influences say.
I do read reviews and I do reviews . If there is one or two bad reviews I ignore it.

You can pretty much pick the false reviews.

Im stuck atm about writing a review.
I went to a hairdressers today which is not my normal one. I was just planning a trim then I saw it wasn't much more for a colour.
As I was standing outside looking at their prices a guy came out and asked what I was looking at getting done. He ushered me inside and before I knew it he was putting in foils then coloured ny hair.

My normal hairdresser puts colour then does the foils. So the foils are not left in long.

I was happy with the end result but not 100%.

1. He never asked what colour, he just did it.

2. It was just a trim not a cut n style. It took him 5 minutes

When I first went inside the price was $75. Which sounded very good. Then he asked if I wanted to add a particular thing to the foils which cost $20. I agreed so price went to $95 which is what I usually pay. Then when I went to pay it had jumped to $115. He charged $20 to straighten, which I never asked for nor did he tell me. ( my hairdress dies everything for $90)

This hairdresser is in centro roselands and afterwards I thought what if I didn't have the money.

Now should I write a review so say how pushy and untrustworthy he was , to warn others before going in
You hit the nail on the head with your comments ... it was a large shopping centre which has high rents, so they do their darn best to upsell. Hairdressers in the suburbs are cheaper with less rents. My hairdresser tells me shopping centre hairdressers aren't superior at what they do, it's due to higher rents costs. Also, my hairdresser owns her shop in the suburbs.
 
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Such a lovely influencer who blackmails people. :rolleyes: One would think they need common sense, but no.
 
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