Community Outrage: Why High-Fives from Everyone's Favorite 'Lollipop Man' Are Being Forbidden – Protect Your Kids!

In the heart of the Yarra Ranges, a local hero known for his infectious joy and the simple act of high-fiving children at a school crossing has been met with a wave of controversy. The 'lollipop man', as crossing guards are affectionately known in Australia, has become a beloved figure among the children and parents of Mount Dandenong Primary School. However, a single complaint has led to a ban on this cherished daily ritual, sparking uproar within the community.

The lollipop man in question, whose high-fives have been described as a highlight for many children on their way to and from school, has been told by the Yarra Ranges Council that he can no longer initiate this gesture. The decision came after a parent expressed concern, leading the council to enforce a strict interpretation of child safety protocols.


A spokesperson for the Yarra Ranges Council spoke to Yahoo News Australia, emphasizing that 'the safety of children is of paramount importance for all Council staff, contractors and volunteers.' They further explained that all individuals in contact with children must adhere to the Victorian Child Safe Standards, which include having a valid Working With Children check and following guidelines on appropriate conduct.


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Lollipop man' Goulden was banned from high-fiving kids at Mount Dandenong Primary due to one complaint. Credit: Shutterstock


The council's stance is that school crossing supervisors must avoid any behaviours that could be seen as 'unnecessarily physical' or involve initiating 'unnecessary physical contact' with children. This policy is in place to protect children and ensure a safe environment, but it has also inadvertently stifled a warm and friendly tradition that many argue contributes positively to the community's spirit.


Parents and children alike have expressed their dismay at the ban, with many feeling that the council's decision is an overreach that undermines the positive impact the lollipop man has on the community. In response, a petition has been organized by Rohan Bradley, a local parent, to allow the lollipop man to continue his high-fiving tradition. Bradley passionately argues that this small gesture is more than just a tradition; it's a symbol of the warmth and friendliness that makes their community unique.

The petition highlights the importance of the lollipop man's role in the children's happiness and well-being and has quickly garnered over 100 signatures of support. The community's response underscores the deep affection for the lollipop man, who was recently honoured as the 'Region 4 School Crossing Supervisor of the Year' by School Crossings Victoria Inc. for his outstanding contributions to community safety.

This situation raises important questions about the balance between child safety and community engagement. While the need for child protection is undisputed, the community's reaction suggests a desire for a more nuanced approach that recognizes the value of positive interactions between children and trusted adults in their daily lives.


Key Takeaways
  • A beloved 'lollipop man' named Goulden has been banned from high-fiving children at Mount Dandenong Primary School due to a single complaint.
  • The Yarra Ranges Council cited 'child safety' as the reason, aligning with the Victorian Child Safe Standards regarding appropriate conduct around children.
  • Parents and children have been upset by the ban, leading to a petition being started in support of Goulden's actions, which over 100 people have signed.
  • Goulden was recently named 'Region 4 School Crossing Supervisor of the Year' by School Crossings Victoria Inc. for his contributions to community safety.
We at the Seniors Discount Club understand the importance of safeguarding our children, but we also recognise the significance of community bonds and the small joys that can make a big difference in a child's day. We invite our readers to share their thoughts on this matter. How do you feel about the council's decision? Have you experienced similar situations in your own communities? Let's discuss the ways we can protect our children while also preserving the friendly gestures that contribute to a caring and connected society.
 

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I understand the sentiment. Lollipop 🍭 ladies and gentlemen too, are really respected and appreciated by school communities. Our children’s school, had a wonderful lollipop lady who was truly loved by all. Had it been a gentleman, I can understand, how this obviously kind gesture, could be mistaken for, and early sign of grooming. I’m sure this gentleman is truly just that, sadly what we have now learned, it tragically can be a sign. This man probably is totally genuine, but it’s a tough call. Jury’s out!
 
I understand the sentiment. Lollipop 🍭 ladies and gentlemen too, are really respected and appreciated by school communities. Our children’s school, had a wonderful lollipop lady who was truly loved by all. Had it been a gentleman, I can understand, how this obviously kind gesture, could be mistaken for, and early sign of grooming. I’m sure this gentleman is truly just that, sadly what we have now learned, it tragically can be a sign. This man probably is totally genuine, but it’s a tough call. Jury’s out!
What utter bullshit!
How can you possibly interpret a high five for all kids as grooming!
Your attitude is the problem!
 
This attitude by authorities and some parents could be teaching children that most adults are unfriendly, to be avoided and possibly feared.
I can't believe that acts of grooming take place in a 2 second act of friendship and humour in the midst of many other kids and parents.
Lighten up people and find more evidence that this man is exploitative before taking action against him.
 
I just received an email from someone who hasn’t been a victim. I was a victim on 3 occasions, as an 8 year old child. My brother was a victim asls, but by a trusted catholic boarding school Christian Brother. My brother’s life was ruined, when he committed suicide when he was 40 years old. I was a victim of a family friend. I had the sense to inform my Mother. She took me to the police in Melbourne, and nothing was done. You know, if you had experienced it, you’d understand. Because of what you consider utter bullshit, my Mother had my his organs donated, so 7 other people could live. That’s how I know. I will accept your apology. I’m glad that I fight today for other victims. I’m 66 years old. Not a day goes by, that I don’t know what grooming is.
 
What a sad person that must be, to question such a simple gesture. I was happy when I read that the Lollipop man was high fiving and the kids looked forward to this interaction with him every day. The poor kids of today kind of only know loneliness and avoidance. Because the parents don't want to teach their kid anything. They want their kids to avoid everybody and everything and then they won't get hurt. Also women can groom kids so it's a bit unfair to blame just men
 
There's always one isn't there. whose blinkered vision is black and white with nothing in between. The Rule Book is their bible. This particular parent is probably congratulating him/herself for exposing a reckless act that presents a highly dangerous threat to children, parents, and anyone else within a 10 km range of the school in question.
Sadly, what these one-eyed 'keepers of community standards' fail to understand is the subtleties of communication and the value of small positive gestures The lollipop man's high-five sign would have meant so much to some students, welcoming them to the school, relieving tension and making them feel special, not just another pupil.
Also what this 'Saviour of Standards' hasn't taken into account, is that school communities, particularly primary schools, are generally fairly close-knit, so inevitably, the finger of blame will almost certainly find them out. The possible reprisals that their family might experience as a result of their actions will hopefully get them to think past their narrow-minded opinions and see that there are many shades, of many colours, in between their black and white.
 
What a sad person that must be, to question such a simple gesture. I was happy when I read that the Lollipop man was high fiving and the kids looked forward to this interaction with him every day. The poor kids of today kind of only know loneliness and avoidance. Because the parents don't want to teach their kid anything. They want their kids to avoid everybody and everything and then they won't get hurt. Also women can groom kids so it's a bit unfair to blame just men
this is about one individual - who happens to be a man. Nothing about men vs women.
 

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