[Michelle Engbino]

You’re usually holding cats the wrong way​

While we might think we’re being affectionate, research shows that many cats simply tolerate human touch, often putting up with our clumsy pats just to score a meal or a bit of attention. They’re polite about it, sure, but that doesn’t mean they’re enjoying it.

If you really want to connect with a cat on their terms, it pays to know the right spots. Experts say the safest areas to stroke are under the chin, around the cheeks, and at the base of the ears—places where cats often rub their scent glands and feel secure. That’s where you’re most likely to get a purr of approval.

But beware: areas like the belly and the base of the tail are usually off-limits. Despite being soft and tempting to pet, these zones are sensitive—and touching them can lead to a swat, a glare, or a quick exit. In cat terms, that’s basically a please don’t.

So next time you reach out for a cuddle, take a moment to read the room (or rather, the whiskers). Your cat might just thank you... in their own quiet, judgy way. Watch this video to learn how to properly get some lovin' from cats!

Source: The Cat Butler / Youtube.​

 

[Veggiepatch]

Having owned over 30 cats in my life, each cat is unique and individual as humans.

A cat who enjoys tummy rubs is one that has your total trust, as a cat's belly is their most vulnerable part of their body when it comes to predators.

Some cats love their paws touched while others can't stand it. Most cats enjoy a gentle scratch between the eyes since they can't do it themselves. Same goes for dogs.

Hard and fast rules do not exist for cats, so such generalisations go out the window.