The most memorable gift I received on my wedding day was not purchased from any store. A beautiful and deeply-loved aunt spent every evening for weeks making miniature satin slippers for each guest to take their slice of wedding cake home in.
54 years on, I still have one of those slippers - now a bit yellowed - in my china cabinet. I treasure it as a reminder of the love that went into all the wedding preparations. That aunt made all the bouquets. She decorated the cars. With help from my uncle and cousins, she decorated the garage her family had converted to a rumpus room - lining the walls with silver foil and making huge ivy arches, and covering trestle tables with white sheets borrowed from neighbours to lay out the food that was supplied by my mother and aunts, and the wedding cake supplied free by my step-father's employer.
It was a simple but beautiful wedding. I dressed in a borrowed gown, veil and headpiece and my step-father repainted worn white shoes. The only new items I wore were a blue garter and pantyhose. The reception was held in that converted garage - a simple buffet meal provided by many guests bringing plates of food.
I did receive some nice gifts of serving bowls and platters, glassware and linen, but that simple satin slipper will always be special, and it's a reminder that we don't need to spend money to give meaningful gifts.