'Judge me all you want': This psychologist never returns her shopping trolley for one reason
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In a world where common courtesies and social norms are often taken for granted, one psychologist's controversial stance on a mundane task sparked a fiery debate across social media.
Leslie Dobson, a psychologist and mum-of-two, faced criticism after boldly declaring an unusual habit.
In a video she shared on social media, Dobson shared that she never returns her shopping trolley at the supermarket.
'I'm not returning my shopping trolley, and you can judge me all you want,' she said.
'I'm not getting my groceries into my car, getting my children into the car and leaving them in the car to return the trolley,' she added.
'So, if you're going to give me a dirty look, f*** off.'
Returning a shopping trolley after unloading groceries is a simple yet significant gesture of consideration.
It also keeps car parks orderly and prevents potential accidents.
However, Dobson's refusal to adhere to this unspoken rule opened up a conversation about the challenges parents face while balancing safety and social responsibilities.
Critics argued that if Dobson managed to get the trolley to her car, she could return it.
One commenter cited the 'shopping cart theory', a concept suggesting that a person's willingness to return a trolley is indicative of their morals.
'How did your kids get to the shopping trolley safely?' another commenter asked Dobson.
'Did you leave them in the car alone and get the trolley? Or were they portable enough to make it without a trolley?'
'You unload the groceries, and together with the kids, you return the trolley—also teaching them to do it as a byproduct,' A third commenter suggested as an alternative.
In a follow-up video, she defended her actions by highlighting the potential dangers that lurk in car parks.
'Last year, 265 children were abducted in car parks in America—half of those were sexually assaulted,' she shared, referencing a report from .
The safety of children is paramount, and the fear of leaving them alone can be distressing for any parent.
She also pointed out that as a single mum, she can be a potential target for predators while returning a trolley.
Dobson's mention of lawyers specialising in car park crimes is a stark reminder that these concerns are real.
The online debate shed light on the broader safety issue in public spaces, particularly for women and children.
It also raised questions about the responsibilities of supermarkets to ensure secure environments for their customers.
We have seen the evolution of social norms and the increasing emphasis on personal safety.
We understand the importance of being considerate to our community, but we also recognise the need to prioritise the well-being of our loved ones.
Have you ever faced a similar dilemma when shopping with young ones or grandchildren? What do you think about her stance? Let us know your thoughts and experiences in the comments below.
Leslie Dobson, a psychologist and mum-of-two, faced criticism after boldly declaring an unusual habit.
In a video she shared on social media, Dobson shared that she never returns her shopping trolley at the supermarket.
'I'm not returning my shopping trolley, and you can judge me all you want,' she said.
'I'm not getting my groceries into my car, getting my children into the car and leaving them in the car to return the trolley,' she added.
'So, if you're going to give me a dirty look, f*** off.'
Shoppers are expected to return their trolleys in-store as courtesy and a safety measure. Image Credit: Pexels/Pixabay
Returning a shopping trolley after unloading groceries is a simple yet significant gesture of consideration.
It also keeps car parks orderly and prevents potential accidents.
However, Dobson's refusal to adhere to this unspoken rule opened up a conversation about the challenges parents face while balancing safety and social responsibilities.
Critics argued that if Dobson managed to get the trolley to her car, she could return it.
One commenter cited the 'shopping cart theory', a concept suggesting that a person's willingness to return a trolley is indicative of their morals.
'How did your kids get to the shopping trolley safely?' another commenter asked Dobson.
'Did you leave them in the car alone and get the trolley? Or were they portable enough to make it without a trolley?'
'You unload the groceries, and together with the kids, you return the trolley—also teaching them to do it as a byproduct,' A third commenter suggested as an alternative.
In a follow-up video, she defended her actions by highlighting the potential dangers that lurk in car parks.
'Last year, 265 children were abducted in car parks in America—half of those were sexually assaulted,' she shared, referencing a report from .
The safety of children is paramount, and the fear of leaving them alone can be distressing for any parent.
She also pointed out that as a single mum, she can be a potential target for predators while returning a trolley.
Dobson's mention of lawyers specialising in car park crimes is a stark reminder that these concerns are real.
The online debate shed light on the broader safety issue in public spaces, particularly for women and children.
It also raised questions about the responsibilities of supermarkets to ensure secure environments for their customers.
We have seen the evolution of social norms and the increasing emphasis on personal safety.
We understand the importance of being considerate to our community, but we also recognise the need to prioritise the well-being of our loved ones.
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