English man claims moving to Australia 'ruins lives': ‘Why?’

There are countless reasons to be thankful for living in Australia. It offers a unique charm, with a delightful assortment of both cities and nature, coupled with a vibrant culture and ever-friendly citizens.

However, it might surprise you that not everyone shares this sentiment. Among the dissenters is a British man who firmly believes that moving to Australia from the UK is the equivalent of 'ruining your life'.



Fred, a renowned English comedian, has touched an unexpectedly raw nerve, dismissing the idea of British expats relocating to Australia for 'hardly any good reason'.

He pricked the bubble surrounding life in Australia, stating that he tried to settle in Melbourne for his 'gap year' only to hastily fly back to London within three short months.

'I don't understand the hype about Down Under,' Fred admitted.


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The Brit is 'sick' of losing his friends and criticised their decision. Credit: Pexels/Catarina Sousa.



Moving to a new country can be a complex journey of excitement, anticipation, and, at times, loneliness or anxiety. It's not as simple as falling in love with the fabulous sights, weather, or lifestyle; it's about creating new roots and adjusting to a different culture.

Fred has experienced his fair share of exasperation over this topic. He went on to express how frustrating it can be to maintain connections with friends who venture halfway across the globe.

He admitted that his friends who now live in Australia are 'not relevant' to him.



From a practical standpoint, Fred might have a point. After all, the global time differences can make it incredibly hard to juggle international relationships and friendships.

'The world is indeed big, but it's too big to move to the other side of it and expect me to reply to your “How's your day” messages from the future,' Fred complained.

Fred's rant even questioned his friends' decision to migrate Down Under. He lamented over the disruption these moves cause in close-knit groups, saying: 'They'll tell you they don't actually know anyone there, and they will have to get a whole new job and life and house. And they've also got to move all their stuff overseas, thousands of miles away—but they really “have” to do it for some reason.'



He grumbled about broken promises to 'keep in touch' despite the glaring disparity in both location and time.

He was clearly unconvinced with the distant yet immediate connectivity modern technology offers us, saying: 'I'm not going to be texting you about the Premier League because you're probably watching the A-League or Aussie Rules.'



His video struck a chord with many, while others outright disagreed. A slew of comments poured in, with some saying: 'Interest in Australia is my biggest dating app red flag.'

Others argued: 'I moved to Australia, and it's not the utopia you think it is. I hated it and moved back to England two years later.'

Key Takeaways

  • An English man has criticised those who choose to move to Australia without any solid justification, claiming it 'breaks' relationships.
  • He shared a video expressing his frustration about friends leaving their familiar life in England to live in Australia, asserting that it complicates staying in touch due to the substantial distance and time difference.
  • His statements resonated with many other Brits who shared similar experiences of losing touch with friends after they relocated to Australia.



Australia is undeniably a captivating country that has a lot to offer, and it's no wonder that countless individuals find it worthy of consideration, whether they're planning a short visit or contemplating a long-term relocation. Ultimately, the choice is a personal one.

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