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Hey I wonder about some great opening “ lines “ that you can use theses days to start a conversation with a person your meeting for the first time As it appears sensitivity is the thing to watch out for. ?
Ooooh! This is such a great question. For me, finding something that I genuinely like about them, such as their outfit, and complimenting them on it always does the trick. :)
 
Start by telling the other person your name and ask their name.
From there ask politely about their life and tell them a little about yourself and so on. If you get on it should be easy from thereon.
Yes the exact formula I work from. Being in a very public atmosphere such an enjoyable challenge
 
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I would introduce myself and ask them their name .

Depending if it's a planned meeting or bumping into someone.
I'm thinking you are asking for a planned meeting .

If it's a restaurant, ask if they have been there before .

Let them know a little about yourself but also let them tell you about them, make sure conversation is equal not all about you .

Questions like :
have you been here before ?
Do you come here often ?

What's your favourite cuisine?
Then move onto what do you do eg work, hobbies ect.

I'm sure the conversation will flow on from there , but like I said keep it balanced, if they are not talking then say something about you then ask them the same thing about them.

Can we ask are you going on a date ?
 
I would introduce myself and ask them their name .

Depending if it's a planned meeting or bumping into someone.
I'm thinking you are asking for a planned meeting .

If it's a restaurant, ask if they have been there before .

Let them know a little about yourself but also let them tell you about them, make sure conversation is equal not all about you .

Questions like :
have you been here before ?
Do you come here often ?

What's your favourite cuisine?
Then move onto what do you do eg work, hobbies ect.

I'm sure the conversation will flow on from there , but like I said keep it balanced, if they are not talking then say something about you then ask them the same thing about them.

Can we ask are you going on a date ?
Hi. No I’m not I’m just looking at various ideas for my widening social network
 
When I am in Thailand and I am meeting a bargirl for the first time, I always ask 3 questions:

1) Are you a girl?

2) Have you always been a girl? and

3) If you answered No to either question 1 or 2, can you keep a secret?
 
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Hey I wonder about some great opening “ lines “ that you can use theses days to start a conversation with a person your meeting for the first time As it appears sensitivity is the thing to watch out for. ?
Feel the texture of this shirt... does it feel like good boyfriend material?
Or maybe say omg you remind me so much like my partner your look and speak even. lean in and say you even smell the same.

The explain that you don't yet have a partner.
 
Feel the texture of this shirt... does it feel like good boyfriend material?
Or maybe say omg you remind me so much like my partner your look and speak even. lean in and say you even smell the same.

The explain that you don't yet have a partner.
Feel the texture of this shirt... does it feel like good boyfriend material?
Or maybe say omg you remind me so much like my partner your look and speak even. lean in and say you even smell the same.

The explain that you don't yet have a partner.
Yes I I like the way you put that nothing like front on approach is there
 
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Yes, I I like the way you put that nothing like front on approach is there
Ta, Happyhawk
I appreciate your liking my approach.

Long term love (for me) has to be equally nutritious.

I suggest all you may need to do, is to always in mutual interest always mean what you're saying, to whomever you really like constantly saying it too.

I the feelings are felt mutual then softly sneak up in conversation or actually and pounce on the person and express your feelings.

That's how us cats do it. D.M chats are a know no not knot. when it's true, that you both feel in mutual attraction! limit talking, that's how being stuck in the friend zone occurs ...

Thats my roar (Lionel Pun) advice... I hope it helps.
 

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