Big problems for big packages: Men with large endowments share unspoken challenges
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In a society where size is often equated with masculinity and prowess, it may come as a surprise that for some men, having a large penis is not a blessing but a curse.
The Seniors Discount Club is taking a closer look at a topic that's rarely discussed openly yet affects the lives of several men: the challenges of being very well endowed.
From struggles with clothing and physical discomfort to the impact on relationships and self-esteem, these men share their experiences to break the stigma.
While the media and popular culture often glorify men with large penises, positioning them as the epitome of sexual desirability, the reality can be quite different.
Lorraine Grover, a top sexual health nurse from Oxford Online Pharmacy, has shed light on the darker side of this issue.
‘Men [broken up with due to penis size] are often left questioning their worth and desirability.’ she said.
The struggles of these men are not just anecdotal.
A social media post that became popular titled 'Have you ever broken up with a man because of his penis? If so, why?' has garnered thousands of responses, many of which cite the difficulties of being with a too large partner.
Women have shared their experiences of physical pain and discomfort during sex, leading to the unfortunate conclusion that size can indeed be too much of a good thing.
One woman's post, which received over 4,000 likes, poignantly illustrated the dilemma:
'Once dated a guy that had a "mega" penis. No matter what we did, he hurt me. Neither of us enjoyed the situation, so we decided to part ways.'
This sentiment is echoed by others who have faced similar situations, leading to breakups and emotional turmoil.
The issue extends beyond the bedroom. Men with large penises often face objectification and are sometimes seen as novelties rather than potential partners.
They can be turned down for jobs, abused by strangers, and struggle to find genuine affection because they are fetishised for their size.
The Channel 4 documentary My Massive C*** delves into the lives of such men, revealing the loneliness and isolation that can accompany their physical attributes.
One man, identified only as Matt, 39, struggled to maintain a relationship due to his 10.5-inch penis.
‘Being well endowed gets you attention but not affection...if anything, it's more of a handicap because it's not something you can bring up,’ he said.
‘If you bring it up, you're a bit sleazy, but if you don't bring it up, it brings complications.’
The physical inconveniences are also significant. Special underwear, which can be costly, is often necessary to manage their size discreetly.
Clothing becomes challenging, with jeans and trousers rarely comfortably accommodating their anatomy.
These everyday frustrations add to the psychological burden as men grapple with feelings of inadequacy and anxiety.
‘It's important to remember that confidence is not just about size–it's about self-acceptance, communication and what makes intimacy fulfilling beyond penetration.’ Grover emphasised.
She advised men to be open and honest with new sexual partners and to educate themselves on techniques that can make sexual experiences more pleasurable for both parties.
Adjusting positions, using lubrication, and varying the pace can improve comfort and enhance intimacy.
Remembering that confidence and self-worth should not be tied to physical attributes is crucial.
Our society's fixation on size can lead to unrealistic expectations and unnecessary pressure.
As we age, we understand that intimacy and connection are about so much more than physical dimensions.
It's about mutual respect, understanding, and finding joy in the shared experience.
For our readers who may be facing similar issues or know someone who is, it's important to recognise that these challenges are real and deserve empathy and support.
Encouraging open dialogue and fostering a culture of acceptance can go a long way in helping men with large endowments feel less isolated and more understood.
In similar news, a British man known for having the country’s longest penis opened up about the challenges and misconceptions surrounding his 30cm appendage.
Matt Barr shared his experiences on UK television, shedding light on the downsides and dispelling myths about having a larger-than-average size. You can read more about it here.
We invite you to share your thoughts and experiences on this topic in the comments below. Whether it's advice, a personal story, or just a word of support, your contribution can make a difference in breaking the silence around this sensitive issue.
The Seniors Discount Club is taking a closer look at a topic that's rarely discussed openly yet affects the lives of several men: the challenges of being very well endowed.
From struggles with clothing and physical discomfort to the impact on relationships and self-esteem, these men share their experiences to break the stigma.
While the media and popular culture often glorify men with large penises, positioning them as the epitome of sexual desirability, the reality can be quite different.
Lorraine Grover, a top sexual health nurse from Oxford Online Pharmacy, has shed light on the darker side of this issue.
‘Men [broken up with due to penis size] are often left questioning their worth and desirability.’ she said.
Men with large penises have experienced self-esteem issues and mental distress due to partner rejection. Credit: Pexels
The struggles of these men are not just anecdotal.
A social media post that became popular titled 'Have you ever broken up with a man because of his penis? If so, why?' has garnered thousands of responses, many of which cite the difficulties of being with a too large partner.
Women have shared their experiences of physical pain and discomfort during sex, leading to the unfortunate conclusion that size can indeed be too much of a good thing.
One woman's post, which received over 4,000 likes, poignantly illustrated the dilemma:
'Once dated a guy that had a "mega" penis. No matter what we did, he hurt me. Neither of us enjoyed the situation, so we decided to part ways.'
This sentiment is echoed by others who have faced similar situations, leading to breakups and emotional turmoil.
The issue extends beyond the bedroom. Men with large penises often face objectification and are sometimes seen as novelties rather than potential partners.
They can be turned down for jobs, abused by strangers, and struggle to find genuine affection because they are fetishised for their size.
The Channel 4 documentary My Massive C*** delves into the lives of such men, revealing the loneliness and isolation that can accompany their physical attributes.
One man, identified only as Matt, 39, struggled to maintain a relationship due to his 10.5-inch penis.
‘Being well endowed gets you attention but not affection...if anything, it's more of a handicap because it's not something you can bring up,’ he said.
‘If you bring it up, you're a bit sleazy, but if you don't bring it up, it brings complications.’
The physical inconveniences are also significant. Special underwear, which can be costly, is often necessary to manage their size discreetly.
Clothing becomes challenging, with jeans and trousers rarely comfortably accommodating their anatomy.
These everyday frustrations add to the psychological burden as men grapple with feelings of inadequacy and anxiety.
‘It's important to remember that confidence is not just about size–it's about self-acceptance, communication and what makes intimacy fulfilling beyond penetration.’ Grover emphasised.
She advised men to be open and honest with new sexual partners and to educate themselves on techniques that can make sexual experiences more pleasurable for both parties.
Adjusting positions, using lubrication, and varying the pace can improve comfort and enhance intimacy.
Remembering that confidence and self-worth should not be tied to physical attributes is crucial.
Our society's fixation on size can lead to unrealistic expectations and unnecessary pressure.
As we age, we understand that intimacy and connection are about so much more than physical dimensions.
It's about mutual respect, understanding, and finding joy in the shared experience.
For our readers who may be facing similar issues or know someone who is, it's important to recognise that these challenges are real and deserve empathy and support.
Encouraging open dialogue and fostering a culture of acceptance can go a long way in helping men with large endowments feel less isolated and more understood.
In similar news, a British man known for having the country’s longest penis opened up about the challenges and misconceptions surrounding his 30cm appendage.
Matt Barr shared his experiences on UK television, shedding light on the downsides and dispelling myths about having a larger-than-average size. You can read more about it here.
