Ask Joy: New Ways to Deal with Pain

Note from the Editor:
This article was kindly written for the SDC by retired psychologist/ member @Joy Straw.

Pain can affect us emotionally, socially and psychologically, as well as physically.

Pain isn’t as simple as my body is sending the message to my brain that recognises it hurts. This is an outdated belief. Professor Tor Wagner suggests a more realistic way of thinking: ‘My body is under threat, so what should I be feeling?’ Pain is more a guess made by your brain in reaction to a physical stimulus.



Pain becomes more than just an ache in our joints, bones or skin. Our brain decides what these sensations mean to us by working through other factors, including memories, thoughts, feelings and whether we are having a good day or a bad day.
When we injure or twist an ankle, it is very sensitive to being placed on the ground, and we can become stressed and nervous about standing. However, after icing and strapping the ankle and resting we slowly begin to recover and are gradually able to move around without too much discomfort. Till finally we are usually able to walk normally. With chronic pain, however, these signals are amplified, and our feelings of anxiety or fear of the pain do not diminish, and we become stuck in a loop of pain, stress, fear and anxiety. This isn’t a case of ‘the pain is all in the mind’. It is about our body/brain relationship and the fact that the body and brain can’t reset back, and we remain hypersensitive to stimuli, and this, in turn, re-creates lingering pain. The longer we remain on the painkillers, the more we need to increase them as the pain effect continues, and we need increasing amounts to dull the pain.


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‘If we try to ignore the chronic pain and it is left to simmer, it can develop a myriad of related issues including depression, anxiety, stress, sleep deprivation, social isolation and even financial worries.’ — Dr Abdicate (Pain Specialist).

The latest approach to pain management is working out what is contributing and causing YOUR pain and treating it according to what your needs are. The mix of these different symptoms can be difficult to work out but can be individually managed with a personally tailored Pain Management Plan (PMP).



Pain management specialists now see pain as not just pain medication but requiring a multifaceted approach including possible medical intervention such as anti-inflammatories, implant devices, nerve blocks, spinal cord stimulation, radio frequency, TENS machine and/or surgery. But that is not all, and there are several non-surgical approaches to help with managing your own pain.

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Thanks again Joy. I have severe eczema on both hands due to this cold weather which is very painful but I keep doing the necessary housework, shopping, etc. and tend to forget about it. Fabric Band-Aids are a great help.
 
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Thanks again Joy. I have severe eczema on both hands due to this cold weather which is very painful but I keep doing the necessary housework, shopping, etc. and tend to forget about it. Fabric Band-Aids are a great help.
Sorry it’s so painful . I love your attitude. Simply being positive (and that can be hard) makes a huge difference 💕
 
Thanks again Joy. I have severe eczema on both hands due to this cold weather which is very painful but I keep doing the necessary housework, shopping, etc. and tend to forget about it. Fabric Band-Aids are a great help.
l had terrible eczema as a teenager l know it's so itchy and weepy and drives you crazy.My mum used to bandage my hands with cotten bandages or l wore cotten gloves Try not to get your hands wet and keep them away from anything steamy.Hope they improvve
 
Another excellent article @Joy Straw! I agree that the way we think of our pain makes such a huge difference.

At age 40, I was diagnosed with psoriatic arthritis. The pain became so excruciating and limiting with what I could do, I gave up and tried to drink my pain away.

Long story short, I had my suicide well planned but my stay in a mental hospital put an end to my plans.

The severe clinical depression was correctly treated, which in turn allowed myself to accept correct treatments for the psoriatic arthritis.

To this day, with the medications I take, my problems are well under control. In fact, most days I don’t feel PA pain at all!

I hope readers of your article who suffer with pain will know the value of your advice. ❤️
 
Thanks again Joy. I have severe eczema on both hands due to this cold weather which is very painful but I keep doing the necessary housework, shopping, etc. and tend to forget about it. Fabric Band-Aids are a great help.

l had terrible eczema as a teenager l know it's so itchy and weepy and drives you crazy.My mum used to bandage my hands with cotten bandages or l wore cotten gloves Try not to get your hands wet and keep them away from anything steamy.Hope they improvve
Thanks so much, I had eczema as a baby and my parents were told I would grow out of it. Still have it at 66.
 
Another excellent article @Joy Straw! I agree that the way we think of our pain makes such a huge difference.

At age 40, I was diagnosed with psoriatic arthritis. The pain became so excruciating and limiting with what I could do, I gave up and tried to drink my pain away.

Long story short, I had my suicide well planned but my stay in a mental hospital put an end to my plans.

The severe clinical depression was correctly treated, which in turn allowed myself to accept correct treatments for the psoriatic arthritis.

To this day, with the medications I take, my problems are well under control. In fact, most days I don’t feel PA pain at all!

I hope readers of your article who suffer with pain will know the value of your advice. ❤️
I’m so sorry you are suffering that much pain but I’m excited to see you moving on and turning a page to view your pain in a different light very difficult to do but worth it in the long term. I’m so happy that the article has been helpful and thank you for sharing you positive attitude and outcome . You deserve the peace and happiness you are building for yourself 🙏🏻💕
 
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