Hi Suzanne,
I adore arum lilies but I was told that it is considered a weed and illegal to plant in home gardens! And attracts a fine. Perhaps you may like to check it out. Cheers Gillian
I totally support respecting and therefore valuing the terms as set out in the will - if they are not in or part of your life, they are non-existent and therefore not a consideration. Moreover, when they are successful in making a legal claim, it is not likely they will take any property with...