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'I exposed my sister's fake cancer to my parents... am I unreasonable?'

AIBU, which stands for 'Am I Being Unreasonable', is the perfect platform for sharing your thoughts and opinions! So, for today's AIBU discussion, we have this story from Reddit/Fit-Hunt-2476:

Am I being unreasonable for exposing my sister's fake cancer to our parents after she refused to come clean herself?

'I (34, Female) just found out that my sister (31, Female), who has been telling my whole family she has cancer for the last 8 months, has been lying. She shaved her head, said she was doing chemo, and had our parents move in to "help her through treatment". I started to have doubts when, besides also staying out late relatively frequently, she would never let anyone attend appointments with her, and she clearly had way too much energy for someone going through aggressive chemotherapy.'

'Last week, I ran into the office manager of my sister's oncologist at a coffee shop (small town). I casually mentioned my sister, and the office manager was confused; she had no idea who I was talking about. I did some digging through doctors and spoke to my sister about what I learned, and she broke down and spilt her guts.'

'It turns out she fabricated the whole story because she was in over her head with debt and wasn't able to afford her apartment anymore. The cancer story got our parents to move in, and she could then stop paying her bills.'



'I was furious and told her that she had 24 hours to tell our parents the truth or I would. She asked me not to tell them because it would ruin her relationship with them. She did not tell them, so yesterday I took everything to our parents.'

'Our parents are heartbroken. My sister is acting like I had no right to "out" her and she didn't even say this to our parents, she was going to stage a "miraculous recovery" next month. She said I ruined her life, and that family should be trying to defend each other rather than expose each other'.
 
What a horrible cow to play her own parents like that. You did the right thing by telling your parents the truth. She should be ashamed of herself. My parents died when I was young and I wish they were still with me. She has no right to have parents who care so much as to put their lives on hold for a conniving selfish person
 
What a horrible cow to play her own parents like that. You did the right thing by telling your parents the truth. She should be ashamed of herself. My parents died when I was young and I wish they were still with me. She has no right to have parents who care so much as to put their lives on hold for a conniving selfish person
 
Sister, you did the right thing in telling your parents. Your sister obviously has little respect for her parents if she will gladly let them spend their hard earned money while she wastes hers. I hope these parents look closely at any inheritance their daughter may be coming into - change it now or make sure she pays them back NOW before they die. What an ungrateful so and so.
 
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