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Should you mess with your spouse's birthday gift? A simple tweak got in the way of this couple
AIBU, which stands for 'Am I Being Unreasonable', is the perfect platform for sharing your thoughts and opinions! So, for today's AIBU discussion, we have this story from Reddit/[deleted]:
Am I being unreasonable for disagreeing with my wife to alter a birthday gift that my friend gave me?
'So a friend of mine gave me frames with quotes and poems that resonated with me. I was really moved by his gesture and the thought he put into it. A couple days later, my wife said the photos in the frames are in bad resolution, and that she wants to print the same images in better resolution so it doesn't look pixelated.'
'To be fair, the images were pixelated, but I told her thats a part of the gift and it means something to me. So I wouldn't want to replace the photos, even if they're exactly the same (Ship of Theseus?).'
'Today, she went ahead and printed the new images (exactly the same image, dimensions etc.) and replaced those in the frames from my friend. She said she'll still hold on to the photos my friend gave with the frames. I had no clue she was going to do it despite my explicit disapproval when she originally proposed the idea.'
'This led to a huge argument between us and she feels I'm being unreasonable because she's trying to improve the look of the photos while keeping the same image. Am I being unreasonable for being upset with her and wanting to keep the original gift with the slightly blurry images?'
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