‘They are men’: Teen speaks out as debate erupts over new policy

Public facilities are constantly evolving to accommodate diverse communities, but not every change is met with universal approval.

A new policy at a sports centre has sparked heated debate.

Critics questioned its implications, while supporters defended its inclusivity.


A Melbourne radio host strongly criticised signs at a Victorian sports centre that encouraged patrons to use the bathrooms where they ‘feel safe’.

Radio 3AW host Tom Elliott reacted after a 14-year-old listener noticed the signs at the Oakleigh Recreation Centre and called them ‘madness’.

The laminated notices were placed outside change rooms, with one stating: ‘Trans, gender diverse, and non-binary people are welcome in here.’


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Sports centre’s bathroom policy sparks heated debate. Image source: Instagram/3aw693


Another sign informed visitors that they could choose whichever bathroom suited them.

It listed the available amenities, including toilets, sanitary bins, shared wash basins, shower cubicles, lockers, and a shared changing space.

A separate notice instructed patrons on how to react if they believed someone was using the ‘wrong’ facility.

‘Please don’t: stare at them, challenge them, insult them, do not purposefully make them feel uncomfortable,’ it read.

‘Instead please: respect their privacy, respect their identity, carry on with your day, protect them from harm.’


Elliott claimed the recreation centre had ‘given up on the idea of male and female bathrooms’.

‘This is madness. The number of people who are genuinely trans, non-binary and gender diverse is tiny,’ he said.

‘The amount of rule changes, and mucking around with changing rooms, and the way we shift our language and everything for people who are a fraction of one per cent of the total just amazes me.’

He argued that separate male and female change rooms existed for a reason and that ‘men and women, boys and girls are different from each other’.

‘Different in very obvious and—given the propagation of the human species—very important ways,’ he added.


Fourteen-year-old Sam, who spotted the signs, shared his concerns on-air.

‘In front of both male and female changerooms and bathrooms, I saw two signs of both what to do and what not to do if you see someone who appears to be gender diverse,’ he said.

‘It just makes me sad that girls my age have to struggle with this, that they now have to worry about getting changed in front of literal men, they are men.’

Monash Council defended the signs, stating they aligned with federal and state laws.

‘Access to bathrooms in Monash Council facilities is in line with federal and state legislation that outlines that people who identify as non-binary, gender diverse or transgender can lawfully use toilets and facilities that they’re most comfortable using,’ a spokesperson said.


The council cited the Victorian Gender Equality Act 2020 and the Australian Sex Discrimination Act 1984 as legal frameworks supporting the signage.

The Oakleigh Recreation Centre, which features a gym, group fitness facilities, multi-purpose courts, a gymnastics area, and seasonal outdoor pools, was at the centre of the controversy.

Sam noted that the showers in the men’s change rooms were open-facing.

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The debate over inclusive signage came a month after Elliott faced backlash for criticising translated road safety signs.

He argued that signs in languages other than English, such as Punjabi in the majority-Indian suburb of Tarneit, were unhelpful.

‘The decision to translate vital communication could mean migrants don’t feel the need to learn English,’ he said.

‘Should we actively encourage migrants to learn English? Now I say this because one of our producers noticed a TAC sign in Tarneit in the northwestern suburbs...the sign is entirely written in Punjabi, one of India’s more popular or more widely spoken languages.’

He questioned whether multilingual electoral documents and road safety signs discouraged integration.

‘The more that we translate electoral documents into lots of languages, the more that we put road safety messages into lots of languages like Punjabi, the more we say to migrants you don’t have to learn English,’ he said.


The Federation of Indian Association of Victoria dismissed his claims.

‘If you go to Clayton or Footscray, there are signboards in Vietnamese and Mandarin...it’s not going to change the world by having a signboard in a different language,’ president Vasan Srinivasan said.

‘Cultural input is very important. It could save many lives.’

Key Takeaways
  • A Melbourne radio host slammed a sports centre’s inclusive bathroom signs as ‘madness’.
  • The signs urged respect for trans, gender-diverse, and non-binary individuals.
  • Monash Council defended them, citing federal and state laws.
  • The host also criticised translated road signs, but community leaders backed them.

As public facilities adapt to be more inclusive, not everyone agrees on the changes.

Do you think policies like these create a safer environment or raise new concerns? Let us know your thoughts in the comments.
 
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Tom and teenager both demonstrating their narrow beliefs and ignorance. While we can’t definitively state what % are gender diverse here, because the Census has not asked the question as yet, we know from US data that it is about 10% of population there. Animo et Fide Tom!
 
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I personally wouldn't have an issue with a male who identifies female and is dressed as a female using the female toilets or vice versa, what I would most certainly have an issue with would be if that person got naked in front of children/minors. If this is to become a thing then I believe that ALL the space in a changing area needs to be converted to cubicles with lockable doors. Not everybody would be overjoyed to see or for their children to see a man's naked body in the women's changing area. Also a woman getting naked in a man's changing area could lead to an awful lot of problems that nobody wants to deal with least of all her.
 
My problem is the perverts. What’s to stop a sicko claiming a gender specific identity simply to gain access to bathrooms exactly to get their jollies? I mean,how do we tell? How can you know that the man in the ladies is a safe person? It’s very worrying. A man dressed as a woman,identifying as a woman is different but the you have gender fluid…non binary….what the heck??? So many bloody labels. Just make up your mind
 
Maybe they should have 3 toilets. Male, Female and other genders.
I agree with you and for yours and everyone else's information at the Riverside Theatre in Paramatta, Sydney they DO have "male", "Female" and 'Other" Rest Rooms which we found to be very welcoming for those who needed them. I think I'd feel a little uncomfortable if I saw a male walking in the "Ladies" Rest Room thinking that he'd gone into the wrong rest room or that I'd gone into the wrong rest room. Please keep these rest rooms as they've always been though I'm not against the trans gender as we have a few friends in that category who keep their lives to their own business and never flaunted their gender.
 
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I personally wouldn't have an issue with a male who identifies female and is dressed as a female using the female toilets or vice versa, what I would most certainly have an issue with would be if that person got naked in front of children/minors. If this is to become a thing then I believe that ALL the space in a changing area needs to be converted to cubicles with lockable doors. Not everybody would be overjoyed to see or for their children to see a man's naked body in the women's changing area. Also a woman getting naked in a man's changing area could lead to an awful lot of problems that nobody wants to deal with least of all
 
I was thinking the same thing as I've 3 granddaughters who go to a gym regularly and I think they would feel rather uncomfortable if a male was in the change room changing while they were changing.
 
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I think that there may be a lawsuit in the future, after a female is assaulted by a male pretending to be a trans person, just to get into the female changing rooms. Where is their duty of care? There should now be individual, lockable changing rooms and toilets. When my son was young, I wouldn't let him use male toilets by himself - he came with me into the ladies toilets and went into a cubicle. I guess I just don't trust people at face value!
 
Larger toilet facilities with individual doors to the outside are needed Why is it now we need all these language on signs. Jn the fifties and sixties we had Italian, Greek, Dutch and many other migrants. Never did we need signs in all languages as they made a point of learning English. If it’s good enough to give you a home at least respect your new land by learning the language
 
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