What’s the thing that draws you to someone?

Vella Gonzaga · Feb 2, 2025

What’s the thing that draws you to someone?

Rise and shine, beautiful people!

Welcome to February! Ah, times flying, and I (Vella) am honestly not sure I’m ready for it! Why? Because my partner is away for a whole month!

I already miss her!

It’s funny how the smallest things start to feel so big when someone’s not around eh? Her cooking, her laugh, and the way she makes our space feel like home.

So, I’ve got a question for you—what’s the thing that draws you to someone? I’d love to hear your thoughts—and maybe even your love story. Share them in the comments below.

Parrot · Feb 3, 2025

Sorry Vella I live alone so I am not able to answer your question..
I do have a lovely Daughter who comes to see me on a regular basis and
Often brings me food which I appreciate. Not that I don’t look after myself..
Apart from the Daughter I have 2 Grandsons who call in when they can as they
are busy.. one is a builder & one is in Uni working towards getting. His Masters
Degree.. apart from my Fly I have lovely Carers who take me out shopping etc.So as you can see
I am happy being on my own..

morissab11 · Feb 3, 2025

Hi Vella hoping your time without your soul mate goes quick ,ican only agree with what you say ,having a quiet home is a real reality,I love like you love the laughter ,snickers and even the odd disagreement we are very lucky to have good people in our lives good luck keep kool and well Lyn

acki · Feb 3, 2025

Good morning on this beautiful day , it is forecast for a scorcher as it was yesterday , the answer you are looking for is really unknown to me as being on my own tells me nothing since losing my partner i have tried twice but something was not right so im looking again maybe i will know when and if it happens again my thoughts for today cheers Trevor

Still Ebby · Feb 3, 2025

Personality over looks.Even tempered, loyal, kind,generous, outgoing and funny.
Can't stand moody bad tempered and selfish guys.

Suzanne rose · Feb 3, 2025

Occasionally I love having the house to myself but not for long.
What draws me to someone is their positive personality.
I believe being around a negative person just brings you down.

Isn't it funny when someone we are with all the time goes away we then realise all the things we miss and normally take for granted

Oaklegs · Feb 3, 2025

The first time I saw my wife was when she came into the office canteen and I instantly fell in love but I was too shy to talk to her. After a week or so of suffering in silence I saw her one evening getting her bike out of the bike shed so I followed her on my bike and when we came to the first hill I pushed her up the hill and this year in August we will have been married for 65 years.

Suzanne rose · Feb 3, 2025

Oaklegs said:
The first time I saw my wife was when she came into the office canteen and I instantly fell in love but I was too shy to talk to her. After a week or so of suffering in silence I saw her one evening getting her bike out of the bike shed so I followed her on my bike and when we came to the first hill I pushed her up the hill and this year in August we will have been married for 65 years.

What a beautiful story

Happyhawk · Feb 3, 2025

Suzanne rose said:
What a beautiful story

The magnetic ability to stay in the thought the conversation the blessing that is when Sublime story’s are told of love and it’s strength to grab n pull together the rightful and very lucky ones you’d love to hear theses stories 10 fold over puts the world on a more platonic tangent

Still Ebby · Feb 3, 2025

Suzanne rose said:
Occasionally I love having the house to myself but not for long.
What draws me to someone is their positive personality.
I believe being around a negative person just brings you down.

Isn't it funny when someone we are with all the time goes away we then realise all the things we miss and normally take for granted

l know you think they are going to be there forever then they are gone and a part of you too.
Then you just live for your family as part of that person is in them.

Happyhawk · Feb 3, 2025

Still Ebby said:
l know you think they are going to be there forever then they are gone and a part of you too.
Then you just live for your family as part of that person is in them.

Happyhawk · Feb 3, 2025

There you relive the very telling,warm and sensitive feeling, the word granted never enters the mind as there are many telling parts to the onging family that dynasty we allowed to take part in..what a lovely journey we on

Tim Osborne · Feb 3, 2025

My wife is amazing she never forgets birthdays allways putting other people first,,22 years together and we have never had a cross word just respect love and no boss we are equal

Suzanne rose · Feb 3, 2025

Tim Osborne said:
My wife is amazing she never forgets birthdays allways putting other people first,,22 years together and we have never had a cross word just respect love and no boss we are equal

Vella Gonzaga · Feb 4, 2025

Loving all the heart-warming stories you’ve shared!

Some stories make us smile, others bring a tear to our eyes, but they all leave a mark on our hearts.

Thank you everyone for not getting tired of sharing your stories!

Nevertiki · Feb 4, 2025

The most attractive thing about a man —or anyone— for me is their smile. A genuine slow grin is utterly irresistible in a man. And if he has a great sense of humour ... I'm hooked, line and sinker.

Happyhawk · Feb 4, 2025

Vella Gonzaga said:
Loving all the heart-warming stories you’ve shared!Some stories make us smile, others bring a tear to our eyes, but they all leave a mark on our hearts.

Thank you everyone for not getting tired of sharing your stories!

That’s the name of this ever valuable game

Oaklegs · Feb 6, 2025

Not my story but interesting.
Luciana Barroso was a young Argentine waitress. She was 20 years old, a single mother, and had been abandoned by the father of her only daughter. In the U.S., she was struggling to make ends meet.
One day, while working behind the counter, a young man asked her if he could "join" her and "hide." He then explained that he was an actor and that there were journalists and people in the restaurant who had recognized him.
He was irritated and a bit overwhelmed by the attention, as he was still quite new to the world of fame. Luciana had no idea who he was but told him:
"You can hide here, but at least you have to be useful!"
So he helped her prepare cocktails, serve customers, and wash and dry dishes.
Luciana and the handsome stranger kept talking. At the end of her shift, she asked for his name.
"Matt Damon," the young man replied.
They have been married for 18 years and have four daughters; he also adopted the eldest.

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