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  1. J

    Ask Joy: Making Changes — What’s Stopping Me?

    Loved your comment Your wish…. Article coming up
  2. J

    Ask Joy: NIGHTMARES — When it’s more than just a nightmare.

    Jest I’m so sad for what you’re going through. I can understand why you would like more upbeat articles. My daughter and I started to write a book when we were going through cancer and were going to call it “Laugh your way through Cancer”. You’re right that there are times when we need less...
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    Ask Joy: NIGHTMARES — When it’s more than just a nightmare.

    Jest this article was requested by someone who was having many horrific nightmares and this article was meant for people who have suffered a traumatic event in their lives and they don’t realise that the nightmares can be related to PTSD. I’m very glad if you don’t relate to this as you may not...
  4. J

    Ask Joy: PARENTING as a parent and as a grandparent

    Hi Brody I’m sorry for the struggle you are experiencing with your grandson I would like to write an article addressing parenting of grandchildren. Both you and Brody have suffered some significant losses and gone through some tough times together. Difficulty with ASD though, the person maybe...
  5. J

    Ask Joy: Do you have a question for a retired psychologist?

    Dear ElizaKaye I’m sorry I missed this question. I agree that this is a considerable problem. Legally I’m not sure there is much more that you can do from the legal point of view. My concern is the client who is having these difficulties. First thing I would do is find another GP to refer them...
  6. J

    Ask Joy: Depression Versus Sadness

    Dear DLHM I’m so glad that you’ve been given the help required to become “normal” and thank you for sharing this. The only way we stop this being a taboo subject is too talk about it. I’m sorry you had to go through your teenage years and later before the diagnosis but hopefully this will now be...
  7. J

    Ask Joy: Life Changes in our Partnership

    Love that you’ve found a new relationship and are reflecting on the past experiences Brilliant sounds positive for the future 💕
  8. J

    Ask Joy: Life Changes in our Partnership

    I love that you’re are feeling young and willing to try new things Great energy 💖
  9. J

    Ask Joy: Why make a New Year's Resolution?

    What do you need Barbara ? 😊
  10. J

    Ask Joy: DO I NEED THERAPY or better still do I want therapy?

    That’s an excellent question. Many years ago it was considered a stigma however with the American TV series showing people in therapy in a positive manner it has become a little more acceptable. In Australia we have a “she’ll be right mate” attitude but thankfully seeing people speak out about...
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    A reminder from Joy: Surviving the Silly Season

    Dear Megter yes it must be very difficult with what you and your husband are going through at anytime but your positive spin on such difficulties certainly must be helping you go through this . Please know that many in this community are with you in spirit and I’ll hold you in my thoughts kind...
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    A reminder from Joy: Surviving the Silly Season

    Suzanne I’m so sorry for your loss and his. This must be an incredibly painful time. Please know you’re in my thoughts and I’m sending my heartfelt wish for some peace for you both Joy
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    Ask Joy: Learning to Live with Anxiety

    A member has asked privately about suggestions for books that can help with OCD and anxiety. OCD and anxiety in general works best with CBT (Cognitive Behaviour Therapy) as it’s the unwanted and intrusive thoughts that give rise to anxious behaviours. The following are some suggested reading but...
  14. J

    Ask Joy: Learning to Live with Anxiety

    Dear Jest I don’t think it’s possible for anyone who is diagnosed with cancer to not be anxious, worried and fearful. I’m deeply sorry for what you’re going through and I only hope you know how much people in this community are wishing well for you the three things you are doing are excellent...
  15. J

    Ask Joy: Learning to Live with Anxiety

    Hi Catherine I’ll respond privately and a general response on literature within the group soon🙏💖
  16. J

    Ask Joy: Learning to Live with Anxiety

    Hi Kat yes it’s incredibly difficult to support someone with anxiety or depression . Taking care of yourself is very important just as anxiety is exhausting for somebody with it so it is exhausting also for the person supporting them. Remember to take care of yourself. I’ve just written an...
  17. J

    Ask Joy: Finding a Positive Path through Dementia

    Dear John this is not usually a fast journey but it is an exhausting journey, both physically and emotionally. Several people I know have copied the “How to respond “ table and put on their fridge so they can remind themselves how best to avoid clashes. Please remember that you darling wife is...
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    Ask Joy: Finding a Positive Path through Dementia

    Dear Maxesmum, it is a soul sucking illness an I’m so sorry you are going through this. My closest friend is also going through this with her husband and even though I know a lot of facts it doesn’t lessen the emotional impact that watching someone you love go through this. Please read the...
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    Ask Joy: Finding a Positive Path through Dementia

    Actually there are several Dementia related websites , thanks for pointing this out There is a Dementia and a Dementia Australia.
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